Myself & my wife are staying separetly for last 4 years. We have one son who is 3 yrs old and staying with my wife at her parents house. My wife didnt want to return. She is working as an Assistant Headmistress cum Science teacher at a Semi Govt School near her parents house. She is working there for last 2.5 yrs. She never wanted to return to my place neither she wanted to give me divorce. All her belongings are still here at my house. I have tried my level best, persuaded her to return but she never listened to me. Recently she got agreed to give me Divorce under mutual consent. This is my guess or assumption that she might got involved in relation with someone else at parents house where she is staying there for last 3.5 yrs. This may be true or may be wrong. I dont know any definite. Anyway if she is ready to give me divorce and live happily as alone or with her parents or with some one else its upto her. i cant force her to return in my life. Let her live her life happily and let me live my life happily.
The main factor is that she is ready to give me MCD only on one factor. That is i have to give her written consent or make an affidavit that after divorce i shall not keep any contact with my son. contact by means of mails, phone, meeting etc. Means after divorce i have to think myself that my wife & son are dead to me and i`m a dead person to them.
My question is Legally is it possible ? I`m getting divorced with my wife. I`m not getting divorced with my son. i`m the natural & biological father of my son. Does my wife have the legal right to take away the Fatherhood love & affection from me and from my son as well. Can my wife impose this sort of Legal conditions on me for MCD. What happens when my son become an adult ( after attaining the age of 18 yrs) returns to my life leaving her mother. Any laws are there to Stop it. Is it ever possible legally & socially. I`m also sspending money for good care of my son and my wife is also spending money on her son for good caring & upbringing. Till now my wife have not claimed any monetary compensation for MCD.
Please advice me what shall i do under this circumstances as its a very senitive & emotional factors involved between a father & son.