That means you disagree with the grand parents and grand grand parents!!!
u have misunderstood my statements.
all along in LCI,i have vouched for keeping a marriage.i am not in favour of divorces.i am against them.
so i very much go by hese grandparents' saying,as they too have similar thoughts.
but we also ought to remember that some of these indian grandparents and greatgrandparents have been responsible for dowry harassments,dowry killings,sending back an intertile DIL to her natal home to get their sons remarried.
so all of them have not been like angels which you think.
they themselves did not treat these marriages as sacred.if they had,they wud not have treated DILs in the past as some piece of garbage.because of the ill conduct of these grandparents' only,various pro-women laws had to be enacted.
if these grandparents have stressed the DILs to live in sasural for the sake of their dignity in society,did they also ensure that she does not get harassed for dowry,that she's respected despite her inability to conceive,that she's not bullied by other jealous females of the family and that she's not physically abused by her husband?
if they ensured all this,then i am with their lines of thought.however if they failed to protect the DIL,i don't agree with their thoughts.