1) Is there any way we can avoid sending any communication to our family and also to local police station. I fear if local police station gets any communication it will soon reach my parents.
Opinion: In court marriage police is not involved, all is that "the notice will be pasted on the notice board" , a time frame of 30 days for objection by others, the same copy will be posted on the corresponding address. If you change the corresponding address and mentioned that address in petition where your parents are not living,it might work for you.
2) If we get married through Arya Samaj Mandir and get the marriage registered under Hindu Marriage Act 1955, then in this case any copy/communication goes to our residence or police station? if yes, can it be avoided?
Opinion: No..it is matter of both spouse and they have to produce all proofs of marriage infront of marriage registrara,no communication goes to parents or police station.
3) Is it possible to get marriage performed via arya Samaj MAndir and get it registered under Special Marriage Act 1954.
Opinion: No.....Former is ruled by Hindu marriage as both party needs to be hindu, whereas in special marriage either spouse is of different religion.
4) Since going abroad is also an option for us, can we face any problem if we get married under SMA 1954 or under HMA 1955? I read few places that Special Marriage Act is prefered way to get visa relatively easier.
Opinion: Where you have read such things...?
A valid marriage is necessary whether SMA,HMA,MMA or CMA.
Hope to hear asap. Thank you in advance.