Facts: I am planning to get married to my long time BF. Both of us are Hindu. Both of us are working professionals. Our families are not supporting us that is why we want to hide the marriage from them. I plan to stay with my parents even after the marriage unless both of us move out of state or out of country.
Through my internet search I came to know that under Special Marriage Act 1954 a gap of 30 days period kept between the date of Application and marriage. during this period a copy of application (or some communication) goes to girl's and boy's residence, communication also goes to local police Station. My questions are;
1) Is there any way we can avoid sending any communication to our family and also to local police station. I fear if local police station gets any communication it will soon reach my parents.
2) If we get married through Arya Samaj Mandir and get the marriage registered under Hindu Marriage Act 1955, then in this case any copy/communication goes to our residence or police station? if yes, can it be avoided?
3) Is it possible to get marriage performed via arya Samaj MAndir and get it registered under Special Marriage Act 1954.
4) Since going abroad is also an option for us, can we face any problem if we get married under SMA 1954 or under HMA 1955? I read few places that Special Marriage Act is prefered way to get visa relatively easier.
Hope to hear asap. Thank you in advance.