I have been separated from my husband for 3 years and I filed for divorce in the year 2009 December after my son was 1 year old and my husband immediately sent me a notice for Restitution of Conjugal Rights.
He left me when I was 4 Months Pregnant. We were sent for counselling by the judge and I clearly told the counsellor I was not interested in the continuation of marriage. But the counsellor insisted that I bring the child to the court for the next session on March 2010. But I was not able to attend the counselling session since I got a job outside the country.
During counselling my husband insisted he wants to live with me. I have suffered enough mental and physical abuse as he wants me to sell the flat that is in my name and give him the money.
I told the counsellor all my details of abuse he was not ready to listen and I was not able to attend the counselling session after I came to singapore.
I have to work since I have no other choice since I have to pay the EMI for the flat and maintanance of my son and mother.
I told the Counsellor that I do not want any maintanance and was ready to return 8 sovereigns of gold that they gave me.
I'm unable to attend the counselling session and there is no progress after I left India. My lawyer is also not forthcoming and he says you please settle your career and don't worry about the case. I don't seem to be getting any news from his side.Please advise how to proceed on my case. Will there be a problem if I don't attend the court sessions. What should I ask my lawyer to do next.
How should I proceed on the custody of my son and Divorce. please advise.
