We have marriage of 11 yrs with 6 recent yrs of separation. We have a 10yr Son .
My Husband “the Father” does not support financially or come and meet the child (i have not stopped him in anyway). Before separation we used to stay together in a house owned by my husband’s Mother.
Now i have approached him with a notice to come for a Mutual Divorce, where in i have asked him to make financial arrangements as his responsibility towards the childs shelter as education costs are being borne by me. I have approached for Divorce after 6 yrs of separation is because now it is difficult to meet ends on a salary of 21,000pm and keep up the child's needs along with my own .The average expenses per year on child come to around 2 Lac pa that leaves me with nothing at all .
In out of Court settlement,
My husband says he can only contribute his one year salary of 6 lac for the child’s future.
Which is very less as i have already put in my everything to bring up the child so far last 6 yrs and this is just not sufficient for future of this 10yr old and a kid does start working upright as soon as he become 18yrs old those are the actual years when I would need the funds .
As of right now I am staying with my parents but since they are shifting home we have no residence to stay. I do not want to relocate as the child is doing well the school is good and importantly I do not have fresh funds to pour in the admission process and I have a steady Job However the earning are less then expenditure I am not asking anything for me. Firstly, I want a place to stay for the child and me and if I have to pay rent as well look after the child even if I consider I work till 60yrs. It is very difficult to meet the ends. My Husbands calculation that he will contribute his 1 year salary and I will contribute my life time as well as my lifetime salary is confusing and would like to know if courts accept such stuff ??
The father does not seem to agree with Alimony of 40 Lac Neg, so I have no way else other than to go to court to get it settled.
My Husbands have no other obligations such as loan or any financial burden on him. He leads a very well to do jazzy life and has not taken the stock of our living since last so many years.
I request your suggestion on this please as to, how I should place it more correctly for Financial Settlement and mutual Divorce and what are my chances if I apply for Div. contested in court.