Here's my query:
Me and my boyfriend had our roka early last year and the marriage was slated for 2009 end. The boy's mother and sister were not really happy with the marriage. But the boy assured me normalcy after marriage. But around Diwali, the boy's sister had an argument with me, and she created a lot of hue and cry and his mother and sister decided to cancel the marriage. Seeing no way the guy decided to get married in Arya Samaj mandir, we did not go through the feras but got the certificate. When this thing came to the boy's family's notice. His jija ji who is a govt employee played the smart game and forced my parents for a simple marriage 10 days before marriage. When my parents refused. they being afraid of a dowry case sent us legal notices that they are simple people etc etc. And the guy's contact was broken with me.
Finally leaving the strings open here, they finalized the guy's marriage elsewhere. Fortunately they people remotely got in touch and his marriage was canceled there.
Now my query is that
1. is the arya samaj certificate valid??
2. What are the options with me and the guy to get married elsewhere?
3. i have the photos, xeroxes of the affidavits submitted in the mandir and the original certificate
. Can i file some suite against him
4. and is divorce mandatory?
5. What should be my take as I am totally emotionally drowned???