I Have gone through the contents of many postings/threads on this LCI and came to conclude that both men and women are the sufferer after their arranged marraiage. The most of the husbands complaian that his wife left the matri home and demanded money and other articles under the influence of their parents and in return they have lodged DV/498A against them
While the woman complain that Husband had shown no interest and leave the country and deserted them with no mainatance for their living and has been harassed by their inlaws who has made their life like slaves and had control over her fincacial income et etc etc
These are the common attrition which by the means of forum that majority fromone side has been affected from it
Now question arises why thay use/misue the provisions?
Definitely the reason is that they don’t have faith on each other and are worst than even the strangers who without knowing cannot harm on other
It means whether husbands and wifes are enemy to each other ?
One party get rid of other other make use of provisons by bargaining her/him to provide no or very high maiantanace?
Whether making life hell of each other by use/misuse of provisions so that one part can take advantage of each other?
Women think she deserves mainatance and men think why should paid is the only solution?
For whom we are living for?
Whether we are getting selfish day by day?
Our parents live for us and we are living for no one?
Father don’t care for his own child while woman drags more money in the name of child is the solution?
There are lot of aspersions there
But those who are living under one roof with cruel intention on each other are really better than those who are
the victims on the opposite part?
It clearly shows that we have lost a faith on each other and this is the beginning of declination of arranged marraiage in India
MY COMMENT ARE PURE NEUTRAL AND IMPARTIAL