Dear Author,
The symptoms which you have mentioned in your post are vernacullar and not peculaiiar of 498a and dva wife as these symptoms are common in every 3 out of 4 wives in india.
The following are the reasons which avails them to avert these kind of attitudes:
1. They are made for only luxury as household works are for only maids not for wife.
2. A good lesson and practices are given to their daughters by MIL of husbands before marriage and after marriage.i.e never live like a poor innocent women in your sasural,you have your rights,no body can come against this.
3. And lastly if wife doesn't like you due to her past BF,affairs or need multiple of orgasms then you are out.She is well verged with extortions and legal terrorism awarded by govt. too.
Precautions:
1. Start assembling her informations like her behaviour,her income,her past experience if any.(Make a file of evidences for your future benefits in false cases).
2. Don't file RCR if the situation gets tense in overtime.(it's useless and waste of money and time).
3. Wait till you haven't gather enough details about her cruelity and misdeeds against you and your family members.
4. Once done,go for contested divorce first by filling 13 i a if matter crosses one year of duration or hence by sec-14 of HMA you can file divorce by showing exceptional hardship of marriage to sustain with your wife within one year.(Hire a capable lawyer who can handle the divorce cases with well verged).
5. Act tactfully these days and don't ever succum by threats of caw cell or any police or any miscreants.Try to be bold and legally correct against these allies of women freindly toms.
Regards,
A sufferer......
