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Wife's cruelty - how to prove

Dear Sir, I am in financial crisis now a days and she knows that. (1). Even, I provide everything that is needed in daily household. To quote an example, she pours the sweet oil in the sink, and then she asks that it is finished and she argues to bring it. When I checked it the previous night, the quantity of sweet oil was enough for 2 days, but to make a stir, she unknowingly does this. This happens with all other commodities as well. This is just an example. That is why I started keeping bill and bringing everything from Reliance store. How to prove this. (2). I do not know what she tells about me to the neighbor families, especially ladies and when I talk to my wife, they start giving statements indirectly from their home. I have changed many places vacating everywhere, because of this behavior. Some people avoid my wife as she tells against me and some people take advantage and try to ask me about my family issues. (3). She does not bother about my kid and leaves him always, and because of this my kid always goes to neighborhood....they complaint about my kid as well. My wife intentionally does this to bring pressure on me. (4). When I tell my wife that not to interfere in neighbor's family as it will be disturbing for them if you stay long enough in their house, she takes this as advantage and tells this info to the neighbor's. (5). When I bring non-veg/sweets, etc., in my house, she serves me a little and she takes a very big quantity to neighbor's house and when I ask for more curry/sweets, she states that it is over. Even neighbor's warned in this regard not to do like this and as this caused them to a lot of inconvinience. (6). She gives me tap water instead of drinking water, which made me sick several times. I caught her like that many times, but she tries to cover it by doing it the other way. (7). There are many incidents to describe.....so what to do in this case. (8). Do all the above needs to be proved. (9). I decided to give divorce at any cost, but I am preparing myself financially well and want to be prepared by all means if I am charged 498a case by my wife as well. Spartan



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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     27 August 2013

1.    Take her to a marriage counselor instead of preparing for divorce. Divorce is not that easy now-a-days.

2.    Give her grocery – daily necessarily money and tell her to do her own shopping for the family each month.

3.    Tell her this is your income and these are liabilities and these are your household expenses out of it do as you may please for the home and sleep empty stomach but do feed last morsel to your child first before going to bed. With time she may relaise all these factual shortcomings and during such passage keep your patience under control.

4.    May introduce for few months any female elder in your marital home for teaching her basics of running a household be it your mother or for that matter her mother!


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