Dear All,
I got marriage on 25th Jul 2012 and we live together only for 1 month, later she gone to her parents home due to her health problem. After 1 month doctor confirmed that she got pregnancy but she not yet informed to me and not to retunr to me later i know that matter from my relatives.
Your wife is running......you have to chase her but how long? (as per your above statement)
You have just completed your first anniversary this last 25 july 2013, what was the response from her?
Day by day her behaviour was changing like suppose if i call to her, she never responde my calls and messages, i though that she was busy with her parents or else strugling some health problem.
Hide & seek for her own satisfaction.
When she was with me always look for luxury life. She blamed our parents for sucide and police cases and she also employee earning money but not used for house expenditure and used it for her own shopping and parties.
The above lines stated by you are somewhat tragedic and somewhat remedial...
tragedic: she ignored the affection and responsibilities of wife
Remedial: she is earning,so here you don't have to pay her maintenance.
One day she sent her brother to my office for attacking/beating me but fortunatly it was not happen , later her brother realised that her sister mistakes and asked me for apology but i was shocked about my wife attitude.
This is common tantrum from girl side when they know that her husband is an innocent chap...
Appology ------what appology? once the respect of so called Damaad has been ruined,then no appology!
Days are going on i waited for some months we blessed a boy. But at the time of delivery they not yet informed to us later we come to know that and we went for her home (parents home) even they are not given proper value/response to our parents and me but we are happy for our child.
The actor of negative characters are always bound to do negative shades just like what your in laws have done.
Reasoning: If they will behave with you nicely then how come they will file 498a and dv cases against you.
Now, you should be happy for your son and think for him....rest all are vilian for you.
After some days i come to know that she have ex boy friends and she always chating with them at mid nights before and after marriage in face book and speaking with them always on a phone call i was traced out the entire chating history with printout from her mails.
My brother the above line which you have written is the conclussion of all the above reasonings why she is doing such kind of deeds.
A person who are engulfed with several boyfreinds will never know the meaning of husband even she is married with whom she loves..(it's my personal thinking).
Keep all that records safely, it's your Ramban in false cases later.
She married me only because of her parents force and not yet changed her attitude after marriage now please suggest me what can i do with her i don't want to stay with her.
Dear brother, When you only written that she had married by force of her parents and she not change her attitude then why you are hell bent to change her--------
If a person needs her life rather than you,then leave her
You just talk to her as what she want now,if she tells that she can't live with you then go for MCD,why to burn your precious Homoglobin!
think for your child now,talk to her if she is ready to cohabbit or ready to move ahead with her boyfreinds....
If she wants only the status of social wife then leave her for one more year,enjoy yourself now.
once completed 2 years of successful desertion without any reason,go for contested divorce via 13ia HMA1955,
Stating all cruelities like desertion and she was on the verge of adultery etc.
even all these evidences will help you in child custody of your son.
So,my freind your situation is like to live happy and just wait and watch as what she wants if you are not in hurry.
Enjoy)))
