Dear Sir ,
i am getting harrased by my wife mentally , its 10 yrs and still there is no improvement , I tried to take her parents into confidence and explained everything but they are not ready to understand and dont want to hear anything negative against thier daughter ( my wife )
my wife looses temper on very small things , she gets voilent and starts abusing me and insulting me ,screams at top of her voice ,use filthy language and sarts abusing my parents , ( my mom died in 2007 ) my fther is alive , ( ex .navy )
the only reason i am not responding to her behavior is that i married her and it was my decision , also , i dont want to make my father suffer because of me as he is also aged.
right from begining my wife has no such responsibilty of any of my parents nor any one is depending on her , but her behavior is very rough towards all of us ,
now, i am getting real sick of such behavior and it is affecting my health and my job as i cannot keep concentration , i dont feel like going home after work as i dont know what sort of welcome is waiting for me ,
my wife also denies me of my conjugal rights ,and its more than 3 ys we are living like friends sharing room and not as husband and wife . she is highly influenced by her father and she listens to him only ,
she always put me down infront of others , pass comments which will make me feel inferior and kill my self esteem , i am now fed up and want help ,should i continue relationship ( which i want ) or close the chapter ,
for good ,as it is affecting me big time , i am afraid i may loose my health / life and career as in if i dont pay attnetion to my job i will lose it ,
pls advice should i seek legal action , though her father keeps threatening me ( long back sent letter in legal language ) to threaten me , i ignored , being senior person , but i am afraid he will again try to make my life miserable .
i tried to speak to my wife bout having life in relationship , to have kids , may 1 , but she seems to be ignoring and always complains about my salary etc ,
she was working beofre but now she is at home from past 10 months as her company shut down , even when she was working i was taking care of all the expenses and never took her salary ( though my salary was just half of what she was earning ) i have been supporting and doing my duties as per my capabality and earning not taken any money from her parents or dowry or anything ,
pls help , should i file a case
