Criminal Trident Pack: IPC, CrPC and IEA by Sr. Adv. G.S Shukla and Adv. Raghav Arora
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S.B _Kolkata (Service)     24 March 2010

Symptoms of 498a wife: start to take precaution

If your wife/her family is displaying a combination of these behaviors, then you may have a potential 498A mis user on your hands.

 

 

1.Family:Is newly-rich; Likes to show-off (their house/cars/paintings/relatives/ connections, etc.);

Related to politicians/bureaucrats/lawyers/judges/police officers; has a history of filing cases against anybody and everybody (search the website of the courts in their State of residence); Beats up its employees; Lives beyond its means; Mother's face cannot be seen beneath the layers of cosmetics; Father acts like a 'Brown Sahib'; Girl/her sister has been in more than one previous relationship, etc.

 

2. A push for a quick involvement: Comes on very strong, claiming, "I've/We've never felt loved like this by anyone/or so close to anybody." An Abusive woman/her family pressures the man/his family for an exclusive commitment almost immediately.

 

3. Jealousy: Excessively possessive; calls constantly or visits unexpectedly: prevents you from going to work because 'you might meet someone;" smells your jacket for perfume residue, checks your shirt collar for lipstick marks and goes through your pant pockets.

 

4. Controlling: Interrogates you intensely (especially if you're late) about whom you talked to, and where you were; wants her name on all your assets/control all the money.

 

5. Unrealistic expectations: Expects you to be the perfect man and meet her and her family's every need.

 

6. Isolation: Tries to cut you off from family and friends; accuses people who are your well wishers of "causing trouble."

 

7. Blames others for problems and mistakes: The boss/the employee, her ex-boyfriend/ ex-husband, it's always someone else's fault if anything goes wrong.

 

8. Makes everyone else responsible for her feelings: The abuser says, "You make me angry instead of, "I am angry' or, "You're hurting me by not doing what I tell you." Less obvious is the claim "You make me happy."

 

9. Hypersensitivity: Is easily insulted, claiming that her feelings are hurt when she is really mad. She'll rant about the injustice of things that are just part of life.

 

10. Cruelty to animals and to children: Kills, maims (e.g., tears the wings off a butterfly) or punishes Animals brutally (e.g., by kicking them till they bleed). Also may expect children to do things that

are far beyond their ability (makes an 18 month old stand in a corner or whips a 2-year-old for wetting a diaper) or may tease them until they cry.

 

11. "Playful" use of coercion during s*x: Enjoys initiating and controlling s*x, stimulating herself and teasing; asks about your s*xual fantasies.

 

12. Verbal abuse: Constantly criticizes you/your family, or says blatantly cruel, hurtful things; disgraces, curses, calls you/your family ugly names. This may also involve sleep deprivation, waking you up with relentless verbal abuse.

 

13. Rigid s*x roles: Expects you to serve and obey her/her family.

 

14. Sudden mood swings: Switches from sweetly loving to explosively violent in a trotter of minutes or even more confusing, within seconds. You feel as you are walking on "eggshells" around her.

 

15. Past behavior: May not actually admit to hitting men in the past (but may write it in her journal/diary and says they made her do it or the situation brought in on).

 

16. Threats: Makes statements like, "My parents will support me even if I murder someone," or "A woman is always right/the system should always believe the woman" or "I will cut you up the way a fisherman slices fish" and then dismisses them with, "Everybody talks that way," or "I didn't really

Mean it." If she has come this far, it is time to get help and get out!



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 9 Replies

Vikas Dharmendra (Consultant)     25 March 2010

And says that her supporters are everywhere, she can do anything she want,, now time come to take revenge in the india, and says that her boyfriends will come and beat you(husbamd)

Gundlapallis (Advocate)     25 March 2010

So.... a new disease discovered (or invented?) .... and its symptoms are identified !!  

Vikas Dharmendra (Consultant)     25 March 2010

But Medicine is Yet to be discovered,, RESEARCH is going ON .......,For  Now preventtion is the only solution, it is spreading like AIDS

Pragnesh Nathavat (physical therapist)     25 March 2010

Wow! all these symptoms fit nicely!!!! great discovery.

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     25 March 2010

So how to get rid of it?????

Victim_Kol (Middle Executive)     26 March 2010

Agar pata chal jata hai ki 498a case hone wala hai, to wife ko chhorie maat ! Jitni chahe torture kar lijie, arrest to honai parega. To flase case me faans ke kiu arrest hona hai ?

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     26 March 2010

That means dowry case with attemp to murder????????????

Victim_Kol (Middle Executive)     27 March 2010

Yes we Indians are a bunch of Loyal Husbands, so how can we let our wife go to the police station and utter some lies about us. We take oath to stay beside ouir beloved wives during marriage. So we must look after that our wives don't have to lie.

 

In India where Justice can be purchased, law and order can be bribed, then why should we worry of getting convicted ? We can wipe out the evidences by money !
 

S.B _Kolkata (Service)     27 March 2010

I think when some one anticipating the false 498a/DV case, he must not take any legal action first. But he need to work hard parallely to collect all evidence about her cruelty, adultery, falseness etc and tendency of extort money as well as his innocence. Later on during litigation these will help him a lot.


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