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raj malhotra (M.D)     19 November 2011

Strangest circumstances....wht shuld i do?whom to blame???

 

 

hi members....

iam raj...am going thru hell of my life...wanna share it wid u and know the answers.....why im going thru this hell...

brief descripttion below...

married in 2010....iam financially good but was alone in life...i was living wid my grandmothr as i lost my parents in childhood....my grandmother n i ws living at my grandmoms house...my cousin sister n her husband was the closest relative to me n were playing the role of mom n dad in my life...they found a girl for me...girl was from financially so so family...as i never wanted money or job or dowry from my in laws...i wanted the hapiness of my family...whichh included my grandmom,my cousin sis and my jija ji(husband of my sis)...i got arranged married to this girl...

but his girl (my wife)shown her colours after marraige..she with held s*x...demanded me seperation from relatives and most importantly she and her family reached father in law of mycousin sis to make me seperate from my guradians/family....their intention was that by taking in to confidence of that father in law they can make my sis and jiju and grand mom to seperate me and they wanted to take advantage of me....

this father in law of my cousin sister was in touch wid me when i was living wid my wife and used to talk to me continously...i used to tell him the truth and my wife used to use her tactics in front of my sisters father in law to seperate me from my guardians....and i got divorced in panchayat...gave 7 lacs as permanent alimony...even after giving money i tried to contact my wife and tried to get her back but her family tried to kill me after this panchayat faisla even.now this is a seperate issue that my wife decieved me..but now a new twist came in to story...this father in law of my sis ...he even cheated wid me as he took 7 lacs from me and gave 4 lacs to girl and put 3 lacs in his pocket and the panchayat faisla didnt mentioned any amount for settlement.......im in a grt tension...why he took advantage of me????wht shuld i do???at one side there is my sister nad at other side ismy money n deception...wht do u suggest??

 



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Shantanu Wavhal (Worker)     19 November 2011

ur divorce is not legal

read the following : 

so first get a divorce order from COURT

 

 

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Mahendra Nath Yadav Vs. Sheela Devi on 25 August, 2010
Author: ...................J.
Bench: B. Sudershan Reddy, Surinder Singh Nijjar

CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION

CIVIL APPEAL NO.1801 OF 2007

Mahendra Nath Yadav .... Appellant Versus

Sheela Devi .... Respondent ORDER

1. This appeal has been preferred against the judgment and order dated 8th October, 2004 of the High Court of Judicature at Allahabad passed in First Appeal Nos.786 and 787/2000 and by which the decree of divorce granted by the Family Court, Varanasi has been reversed and dismissal of the petition under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 (hereinafter called as "Act, 1955") filed by the respondent before the Family Court has also been reversed and her case has been allowed. The parties herein got married on 3rd May, 1990. The ceremony of 'Gauna' was performed in 1991. Appellant is serving in the Army and respondent is serving as a teacher. There was no proper opportunity for both of them to lead a normal family life. Thus, differences arose and litigation started between the parties. The respondent-wife filed an Application under Section 125 of the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973 (hereinafter called as "Cr.P.C."), before the Judicial Magistrate, Ist Class, Varanasi. The Magistrate vide order dated 10th May, 1995, allowed the said application by directing the appellant to pay the respondent-wife a sum of Rs.400/- p.m. as maintenance. She also filed Case Crime No.131 of 1991 under Section 498-A of the Indian Penal Code, 1860 (IPC) against the appellant and his family members in the Police Station, Choubeypur, Varanasi. The appellant preferred Revision No.330/95 in the Court of Sessions Judge, Varanasi against the order of the Magistrate granting the maintenance to the respondent. However, that was dismissed by the Revisional Court vide order dated 15th February, 1996. Though the order passed under Section 125 of Cr.P.C. was subsequently modified by the Family Court vide order dated 2nd June, 1997, the relations between the parties deteriorated, an attempt was made by the appellant's family to settle the matter. According to appellant, it was customary in the locality and in the community to which both parties belong to have a divorce through the Panchayat. Thus, the Panchayat was convened on 7th June, 1997. The said Panchayat decided that the appellant should pay a sum of Rs.30,000/- to the respondent's family. It was paid and a document was prepared which was duly signed by the parties. Thus, the marriage came to an end. In order to give legal effect to the said customary divorce, the appellant tried to persuade the respondent to get divorce from the Family Court under Section 13-B of the Act, 1955 by consent. However, she did not agree. Thus the appellant approached the Family Court by filing Petition No.370 of 1998 under Section 13 of the Act, 1955, seeking divorce on the ground of desertion and cruelty. The respondent filed the counter 2

case i.e. Petition No.57 of 1999 under Section 9 of the Act, 1955, for restitution of conjugal rights. The Family Court decreed the suit mainly on the ground that the marriage stood dissolved through Panchayat and dismissed the petition filed by the wife for restitution of conjugal rights vide order dated 15th September, 2000.

2. Being aggrieved, the respondent preferred appeals against both the orders before the High Court and the High Court has reversed the said order in both the cases. Hence this appeal.

 

3. In spite of service the respondent-wife did not enter an appearance. Thus, we have heard Dr. J.N. Dubey, learned senior counsel appearing for the appellant. Dr. Dubey has taken us through the evidence available on record and through both the judgments. The High Court has rightly held that dissolution of marriage through Panchayat as per custom prevailing in that area and in that community permitted cannot be a ground for granting divorce under Section 13 of the Act, 1955. We fully agree with the said decision for the reason that in case the appellant wanted a decree on the basis of customary dissolution of marriage through Panchayat held on 7th June, 1997, he would not have filed a petition under Section 13 of the Act, 1955. Filing this petition itself means that none of the parties was of the view that the divorce granted by the Panchayat was legal. In view of the above, we do not see any reason to interfere with the well-reasoned judgment of the High Court. The appeal fails and is accordingly dismissed. No 3

costs.

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...................J.

(P. SATHASIVAM)

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........................J.

(Dr. B.S. CHAUHAN)

New Delhi,

August 25, 2010.

 

Dr J C Vashista (Advocate)     20 November 2011

Dear Raj,

Panchayat faisla divorce is null and void in law, seek divorce through court repeat COURT only. Somehow, forget about 3 lakh pocketed by FIL of your cousin sister. Now you will have to prepare your wife for mutual divorce through the process of court, where she may re-demand alimony, for that she is entitled.

I fully agree with and appriciate Mr. Amit for his contributory views and citation.

Shantanu Wavhal (Worker)     20 November 2011

 

Mahendra Nath Yadav vs Sheela Devi

August 29, 2010 :: Posted by - shekhawat.ad@gmail.com :: Category - Hindu Marriage Act 1955
Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, ss. 9 and 13-B -A divorce got through the panchayat as per the local customs of a particular community will not be recognised by any court of law. A divorce, in order to be legalised, mandatorily requires a judicial decree from a court of law and nothing less would do. Dissolution of marriage through panchayat as per custom prevailing in that area and in that community permitted cannot be a ground for granting divorce under Section 13 of the Act, 1955. HC has rightly held that dissolution of marriage through Panchayat as per custom prevailing in that area and in that community permitted cannot be a ground for granting divorce u/s. 13 of the Act, 1955 – Moreover, in case the appellant wanted a decree on the basis of customary dissolution of marriage through Panchayat, he would not have filed a petition u/s. 13 of the Act, 1955 – Filing this petition itself means that none of the parties was of the view that the divorce granted by the Panchayat was legal – No reason to interfere with the well-reasoned judgment of the HC – Appeal dismissed.
 
Supreme Court of India

 

Civil Appeal No. 1801 of 2007
Hon’ble Judge(s): P. Sathasivam & Dr. B.S. Chauhan
Date of Judgment: 25 August, 2010

Mahendra Nath Yadav vs Sheela Devi 

Shantanu Wavhal (Worker)     20 November 2011

 

Upa Lok Ayukta directive on dissolution of marriages

 

By Our Staff Reporter

THIRUVANANTHAPURAM, FEB. 9.

The Upa Lok Ayukta, Mr. Justice T. V. Ramakrishnan, has held that registering authorities are not bound by law to register agreements to dissolve marriages, unless they were satisfied that the Personal Law of the parties permitted dissolution of marriage by registering an agreement.

The Upa Lok Ayukta gave this direction while dismissing a complaint filed by Sulabha of Varkala, against the Sub-Registrar of Varkala that the latter had refused to refused to register an agreement for divorce.

So long as the parties to a marriage were not permitted by their Personal Law to dissolve their marriage by entering into an agreement of divorce, the refusal of the Registrar to register such a document cannot be treated as unreasonable or just, it was held.

The complainants in question being a Hindu couple, they cannot dissolve their marriage just by entering into an agreement of divorce. In such a situation, by refusing to register the agreement, the Registrar had been proper and just in his administration of law, it was pointed out.

The Upa Lok Ayukta also pointed out that people had the wrong impression that marriage between two parties could be legally dissolved by executing and registering an agreement and that in such cases, registering authorities should be able to convince the people of the truth.

Many gullible people could get into trouble and even be booked for bigamy, if they go in for a second marriage in the belief that they had legally dissolved their first marriage by registering an agreement to divorce, it was pointed out.

reference : The Hindu

Saturday, February 10, 2001 

 

 


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