Originally posted by : Nandha
There is no legal separation between wife & husband, but wife stays away for husband for sometime and without the permission of husband attends regular classes for appearing govt. competitive exam at her hometown.
Later on, she wants to come back to husband, but only after completing the exam. But till that time she will visit husband on weekends.
Visitation rights Gaurdian and ward case :-))
Please advise on the following:
1) Can the husband stop her attending the classes?Does he has the right to change her decision which she has taken when not cohabiting with husband? If husband agrees to her condition and if she passes the exam, her posting will be in her hometown and she will refuse to join husband later on.
Tie her to a pole using a dog belt.. :-)
2) If husband stops her going to classes, can she claim it as mental cruelty to her?
That means if you are successful in tying her to a pole with a dog belt, yes of course tying any person to a pole amounts to cruelty :-))
3) Even if wife stays away from husband, is she bound to take permission of husband for appearing for exams which will keep her away from her matrimonial home.
She should write a letter to you stating that Sir, I need permission to attend classes blah blah blah.. and CC to your dad, mom, and also the maid of the house. After you people talk it out in a board meeting, then there will be raise of hands for votes, then if 3 vote in favor of she attending classes, she may go attend classes or else tie her to that pole. :-))
You dont have control on your wife, that's point No. 1.
Secondly, you dont seem to look at the future in a different light. If she passes such exam, she will get a good job, earn good money, get social respect. and she is your wife! What more do you want?
Instead of breaking your head about she has to ask permission from you blah blah blah..
You try to set things right by talking to her, for every small thing you come up to LCI?
Things like these are meant to be sorted out in a one on one fashion. And you cannot take any legal steps WRT your wife not asking your permission to attend classes for competitve exams. If you go to an police station, the police will laugh at you and send you back.
Things like this are needed to be handled in a more gentlemanly manner.
Stop vibrating for God's sake!