Am seeking for a help to get a divorce from my first wife. we are living seperately for past 1/12 years. We are not in good terms either with both the families. In the past one year am so much frustrated with her and family. she only listen to her mom and not giving respect to any one in my family and always argue with me. meantime i had decided to marry someone who understand my feeling and have a good compatibility with me. i spoke to my first wife regarding my divore in mutual consent. she is employed. My parents spoke to her to live with me leaving her job. but she is not ready for that. Then i went and spoke to her for divorce but again she refused and told that i will only listen to what my mom says.
In this situation am so confused. also i wanted to marry the one who loves me a lot and wanted to live with me. i know that its really very tuff to marry another gal when the first gal is not agree to give divorce. But i wasted my life more than a year asuming that everything will be set right. but now am totally in hatred with my first wife and wanted to marry the gal whom i love now. is there any ways that i can marry another gal without the knowledge of my first wife?? if i marry and go away from my country not leaving a clue to my first wife, will that create any problems?? .....pls suggest me so that i live with peace.