I had been married on January 2013 to a well educated BE girl. In the initial 6 mths of marriage my wife would have stayed with me for around 3-4 mths. As she had been to her parents home for some ceremonies and to her relatives places. The time which she had spend at our place was full of tension and the home had become a living hell for me and my old parents. My wife had never done any household work and would lock herself in her room during the day being continuously on phone for long hours or involved in social networking on the internet.
She used to continuously torture my parents with abusive words and would warn them of putting them behind the bars. She would tell them to go to their village and stay. Many a times she would become voilent and had slaped me if not listened to her. Banged the doors, broke windows and utensils, if things doesn't go according to her wish. Seeing this my parents conducted many meeting with their parents but all was in vain. Finally i decided to stay seperately as my parents were suffering from lot of pain because of my wife. My wife refused to come to the new rented home which i took and left the matrimonial home on 12 May 2013, for never to return.
We had been contacting their parents ever since but they didn't tell her about her where abouts. She didn't respond to my phone. It seems she had been staying seperately in a rented room in the same city. Her father had told that we will not send her until she gets a job. It seems she got a job some time in September 2013. We had been back of them for a meeting to settle this issue and was urging her to come in the rented home. But she didn't turn home.
It was only in March 2014 they conducted a meeting to send her to the matrimonial home. My parents didn't wanted her in the matrimonial home and even i agreed to that as i didn't wanted my parents to suffer. I offered her to live with me in the rented home which she refused to come. From then onwards we dont have any contact between us. Neither she nor any of her parents had come asking to diffuse the situation and settle it.
My wife had taken a rented home and started staying there. I have not been given any address of hers and all about her where abouts are secrets and they dont disclose. Then i got an opportunity to go to Uk and right now i am in UK for an year. No one has contacted form their end on anything and life is just going on. It has been around one and a half year having been physically seperated.
As per the conversation with my wife long time back when fight use to go on between us she had made it clear that she would live seperate and claim maintenance form me and will not divorce me anytime. And it seems she is enjoyng her time living seperately. Past 6 mths of silence between us has also not brought those people to us asking for solving it. She is now working in a Multinational IT company earning good. Even i am in an IT field. She being a BE and me a Post Graduate.
I want to divorce her now? Could any one of you please suggest as what should be the proper action to be taken in the right direction. I would be in UK for another six months. By the time i come back to India it would be almost 2 years from being physically seperated from her. Could you please suggest when should i be filing the divorce.