Thanks Hedevil ji, yes your name did scare me a little but I know outer facades are never the key to inner self. I've sent you PM - plz check and reply.
Manjit ji - thanks for your concern. If you noticed I did not approach police till now. I wanted him to change and come back but he has sent derogatory letters in a postcard for all to see to my workplace. Luckily for me it did not get into the attention of others. He is trying every way possible to humiliate me now.
I'm not after any monetary gratification - because as I said earlier I earn well on my own. Neither me nor my parents wanted him to work for any monetary gain but only because it would give him a good standing among our family members as everyone is in a respectable job.