Tajobsindia (Senior Partner ) 19 October 2012
Three options pick one;
Option 1 Make your career and live life king size.
Option 2 File RCR (S. 9 HMA) restitution of your conjugal rights and if she comes leave her to her destiny and still live life king size. If she does not come and normally in 1 years times RCR case gets decided in once favor but Court cannot force her to live with you. In that situation Execute the Decree and post execution under 1 year you are eligible to file and get Decree of Divorce. The hiccup here is if she comes then you have to carry on marital life just like that. Another hiccup here is if she does not come then she may retaliate with criminal cases against you and family, so contest them.
Option 3 Start the motion of Divorce under desertion. If she wants to come then donot accept her as you have filed for divorce. With passage of time it may convert to one that of Mutual Consent Divorce. The hiccup here is if she does not come then she may retaliate with criminal cases against you and family, so contest them.
There are not other option other than above three if you have exhausted social / friends – relatives via men and agent remedies.
For option 2 and 3 you need to hire an Advocate via reference or search for one as per your jurisdiction location from Lawyers databse of LCI to hire one from here.
Never opt for panchayat's 30 minutes decree granted on some soiled piece of paper as it is not a valid divorce for legal practical purposes. Never give money how so ever less it may sound i.e. to her / her side for settlement outside Court. Always insist for Court process no matter even if takes cooling period of 6 months for legal piece of mind of parties.
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Hello Everyone,
Can any one of you please help me with your valuable suggestions please. I got married in 2007 Feb, almost 6 years, before marriage i got only 3 weeks time to talk to her and found she is not perfect match for me with her attitude and the way she speaks. I informed to my parents but as there was not much time, marriage happened after all relatives promised that after marriage everything will be solved. But everyday since marriage i am crying about my life. No s*xual life between us and she is staying for last 2 year at her home. After marriage she always fight with for unknown reasons and go to her home and come back with some relatives for panchayat again they will say same thing give her a chance and she will change. But after marriage after 1.6 yrs, she went back to her home and after 1.6 yrs she was forcibly left at our parents house by her relatives after many meetings. Now for last 3 years her uncles came to our house to cancel this wedding with some mutual understanding asking for some money suddenly dont know what happened after discussing all the things now they said she is not interested to give divorce and said they are not ready after that to come for settlement and no news from them after that. Also they said do whatever you want she will also live like this without giving divorce to you and you also should live like this. Dont know how to come out of this mental torture. Can anyone please help with your valuable suggestions. Thanks inadvance.