Please help me, please

File application for maintainance u/s 125 CrpC against him , giving address of his parents as his address. DOnt let him take you  for a ride.  

I suggest you file a complaint under D V Act that will solve most of your problem

file a complaintagainst your inlaws under domestic violence act also file a petition for restitution of conjugal rights. you will get the solution.

I agree with above.

hi sir r u der??

i also need help, kya mujhe koi madad kar sakta hai?? please say regarding dowery matter

We are here to help.  What you want?  give specific details and help to what extent you need.

mrs. wife in distress,

firstly you decide what you want - he or his money??

if you want money instead of him - file a dowrey case; 498a of ipc; dv act; either false or true. no problem.

but if you want to continue the marriage with him, then take the next step caoutiously. his parents needs help and care of him and yours. as well as your mother needs care of you  and her son in law. therefore you you have tosettle the matter intelegently, by which all these three aged person get happiness in their old age.

Thanks everyone. I dont want his money. I have seen his parents only in photos. I have not talked properly to them by phone as they cut the call. But right after we got married, I had sent them a letter stating that I miss them and I consider them as my parents and seeked for forgiveness. But I had no reply from them. Though I insisted so many times, my husband was reluctant to take me to his parent's house.

Filing a case against him would only anger him more. I want to meet him once and talk to him. Until the day before he left he was very loving. I have been going through hell here, without him. I just want him and his love back. But I have no clue how to do it.

Thank you very much for your support.

Also, even if he is not going to return to me, I would not file a fake case like dowry against him.  He was the perfect husband until he left. Also my love is true.

Ms. wifeindistress,

You write a letter asking him to come back to you.  If he will not come back in response to this letter within 15 days of receipt of this letter, file a case under Restitution of Conjugal Rights (RCR petition) in the court without accusing him but only saying that he has deserted you without having any valid reason.  This case starts with conciliation and there you can have talk with your husband to find out the real reason for his desertion.  In this case, you will be given scope to file application for maintenance also.

Any further assistance is required in drafting the letter or RCR petition, please feel free to ask.

1.  The disadvantage in RCR is that once you get a decree in your favour and if your wife has not complied with it, even then, after one year, she can file a divorce petition on the ground that the decree is not complied.  In other words, the violator of the court order can get a relief after one year for its violation.

Mr.Prabhakar, the above stated is taken from another discussion written by you. I dont understand it. Does this mean, if I file a RCR, he has a chance of filing a divorce? If so, then how can I file RCR?

After he left, he agreed for a counselling session with a mariiage counsellor. But he dint say a word to that counsellor thru out the session, even though the counselor insisted. Then my husband left.

Can my husband be forced to take a counselling session and open up and give the real reasons? Is that possible legally? Because, I dont think he will ever tell me the real reasons. He just wants me to hate him and so will give only fake reasons. I believe that he loves me still.

he loves you and you loves him - then where lies the problem?

regarding rcr it is true that, at your cost, he will get divorce.