Hi, I have filed for the contested divorce in the month of Aug this year since my wife is not ready to sort it out through mutual divorce. The reason for filing the divorce is as below,
I got married in the year 2007 in the beginning of Sep. This was a forceful marriage for me by my parents and their brothers and sisters through rowdism and emotional blackmail.
I was in love with my classmate during my college and we both were to marry after her sister's marriage, we had the formal permission for this from both of our family and since her sister's marriage was getting delayed as she did not find suitable groom and in the mean time her father expired as well my parents started pressurising her mom to get us married off first and then the elder one later for which her mom and even she did not accept and coz of this there were several clashes b/w the families and finally my parents decided they will get me married off to someone of their choice without my concern and this is what happened in 2007.
Soon after the marriage may be after 3/4 days I was given with my mob and that is when I called up my girlfriend and informed her about it and then I explained everything which happened during the previous 2 months before my marriage and now we both are seeing eachother and we both want to marry after my divorce.
Since our marriage I have not touched the girl whom I was forcefully married to and I am least interested in her and this side I cant marry my GF since I am already married so I was waiting for a proper time to file the divorce and their were many clashes b/w both the families coz of my behaviour with this girl which has made her to behave odd with our family as well. She is been creating problems very often these days and I have collected the proof and have filed a divorce since she does not want to divorce its a contested one.
Now my question is,
- What is the process in case of contested divorce?
- How long does the entire process takes in my case?
- Her complaint is only that I have not touched her and she need a baby --- Does this have any impact on my divorce which is already filed?
- In my case what all points do I need to take care during the hearings?
I need the divorce as early as possible since my GF is getting pressure from her family to get marry.
Can anybody help me with a solution for my problem please also please advice me with the pointers I need to take care of to get divorce asap.
Thanks
