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You tell me (Personal)     29 November 2010

Need Advice

Long story short

1) Wife left me when pregnant and got abortion, no contact after she left for 2 months and didn't tell about abortion also. When tried contacting for 2months her mother didn't let her talk and stopped all calls. suddenly end of 2months DVC appears with all false allegations.

2) We filed petition in HC and got stay till further notices (after couple of renewals)

3) They came for talks and agreed that its her mistake and want to reconsile, we wanted to her to sign the same statement and submit in court to prove my innocence infront of everyone.

4) Also mentioned she has to go to counselling for her behaviour and also should take care of her bad health before starting our lifes again and want to have in written statement itself.

5) After mentioning this she became adamant and saying what ever mistake she accepted is to regain relationship with me, so its still in her mind that she is doign me and family big favor. She will not give anything in written.

6) We stopped talking again and as a man and living alone in USA have to take a decision and send her divorce notice through my Indian lawyer and they recieved it.

Q) No response till now and still waiting for it, she will for sure reply negatively. How should I handle the same? How much time will it take after filling for divorce with her response? If she agrees to give written statement accpeting her mistakes should I ever consider reconsilation at all keeping what happned till now?

(she meets my lawyers and say she has bad period and all will be set in a month

her parents has all daugthers she being youngest and have no support for them playing games to keep her with them or press me to stay with them in India or USA

She and her parents tried using their contacts to force me for reconsilation in wrong way which we are strong enough to face)



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adv. rajeev ( rajoo ) (practicing advocate)     29 November 2010

try to convince her if she do the same things you have no other way except divorce.

You tell me (Personal)     29 November 2010

I did try to convence her, but she is not accepting its her mistake. If she don't realize its her mistake then how can I convence her. Even if she comes back and we start life again then she will for sure repeat same mistakes again.

DR.SANAT KUMAR DASH (Eye Specialist)     29 November 2010

Consult      a    Good    Lawyer    in    your   locality.........to   which     place    you   belong.     He     can    advise   you    in   the     right    way.

You tell me (Personal)     29 November 2010

I have a very good lawyer who is helping us and safeguarding with all the misdeamers they are trying, like false cases and allegations. They also tried to involve some big shots from my place but didn't realize we already know him and they failed with it.

 

I am posting here to discuss more with a large group of audience. My lawyer strictly asked us not to talk to them as they can recorad our phone conversation, in which they can try to irritate us and when we burst out will lead to more problems.

DR.SANAT KUMAR DASH (Eye Specialist)     29 November 2010

Please    Change    your    Phone    Number.


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