Marriage - Dec 2009
Child born - Sept 2010
Wife leaves for her home (with child) after argument - April 2011
Due to anger i did not visit her or child for 3 months after leaving
Finally i could started visiting her home to see my child
After some time i notice child not getting attention and not being treated properly
On Feb 2012 i got the child back to my house. On medical inspection he was diagnosed with Ricketts.
In May 2012 i leave my job with a reputed MNC as i needed to take care of my child (my father was in his last 2 years of service and my mom was also working)
I beared all expenses of child from my savings, nursed him to full health, got him admitted to a play school and few months back also secured his admission to nursery in NCR. Was a stay at home dad for 18 months till my mom left her job in late 2013 and i restarted working in late 2013
After over 2 years of living seprately and the wife showing no intention of reconciliation or giving divorce or visiting child i finally file for Divorce citing cruelty and desertion in June 2013
Mediation fails in Jan 2014 (60L demanded) and wife and party still avoid to file reply citing various reasons
Late Feb i get call from DCW and Mahila commision
I attended ist session of DCW last week with my father and got handed a streedhan list of over 25L!!!!!!! (WTF). I submitted A copy of my case with covering letter (drafted by my neighbour a retired lawyer)
Was given date for counselling end of this months and told if it fails criminal charges will be filed.
NOW my lawyer who i hired last year for filing divorce petition says that no matter what i do it is 99% certain 498a will be filed after the counselling and has advised me to get AP/notice.
What i want to know is that is there ANYWAY i can not have this false and fraudulent complaint to be filed against me. Please advise