My son jumped college in feb 2015 and promised to work hard. He was 23 then. with his laziness and the feeling that dad will provide for everything, he got sacked from 3 jobs. I got him to move separately 2021 august so he can become responsible. He has come by a lot of money through ancestral property through his deceased mother's side. new found arrogance has come in his behaviour and he has repeatedly said he has cut me out of his life.
In the time he was at my place, he has squandered away all what he earned (no savings at all, though i kept telling him to save his money) and was averaging 35000 per month expenses which i was paying.. Am i right to ask him to payback 7 years of expenses at 35000 a month? I have evidence of the money i spent on him via my bank statements for which he was handling the card since i am a ship captain and away most of the time
