I loved my sister-in-law very much. Proposed her with all the acceptance of my parents & her parents too. She didn't rejected and loved another guy & no intimation to me...! She got breakup with his boy friend. Still I am alive & continuing loving her till date.
Mean while one of my colleague, started sharing her problems with me, and me too. We became closer to each other but already promised one other there will not be marriage between us, as there is caste and other problems also I was already in love with my relative.
She asked me to spend one complete day, which is sufficient to entire her life. I rejected smoothly, but given most of the pleasures which she asked me, including visits to temples too having no money matters between us.
One fine day, she told me about her bridal looks, having pain in heart, let her to participate in it & for better lives of both of us.
After few months, she started demanding me that she will commit suicide, in case if I don't marry her. Already I spoiled my career with love life & less concentration on studies & Job. There was no alternative to me with this severe busy condition. We visited Balaji temple & married. Signed on the marriage register available there.
Thing reversed here, Mom became much ill as we lived, helped each other a lot. & symptoms of murders also increasing day by day towards us by opponents of each other. still I am ready to bare but another final news, that this girl too has another boy friend with deep attachment, which was not known to me.
Finally with broken heart, I came out leaving my home alone after 30 years of long long attachment with my family. Is my decision correct or not..?
I am expecting better life to her with their parents & another marriage. I am ready to divorce.
My parents will be happy that I've got breakup with wrong person, so they might have bright future for next generation.
It is a great lesson to my family, to be cautious in future as we have three new born girl child at home to my brothers.
I miss my sister a lot, where I used to share all my feeling alone.
Am I alone now ...? What I should do now..? Tried to suicide but realized my self from deep depression & left job near to home by moving very long & got another tiny job.
There was a missing case filed against me by her. However by April 2014, It was one year passed, that I was away from all, no contact with anybody and far away from my state. I have the voice records that she kissed more than 100 times in a voice recording to her boyfriend. & during our marriage my friends all know that I was strictly not at all interested to marry her, having more responsibilities at our home. My family member handovered me to her in police station after 20 days of marriage. I stayed in her home for 20 days only with her, then came to know all this thing happened was planned trapping. I escaped from there with one dress & 130/-. After few months as I was away from her home I mailed her twice with appropriate answers. No replies for my quires yet? Her relative mailed with much angry and scolding words, then I replied with cool words & hoping for her bright future by giving me divorce...? For my 4 pages mail, No reply to it yet ? I don't marry again & not ready to harm anybody. Her brother is drinker. She did publicity that we've physical relation before marriage. Having promise between us to "No marriage", we enjoyed open minded girlfriend relation that too with her forceful actions & nude photos to me by phone. This is due to I control/satisfy my self by p*rnography in internet, she made me avoid this by her forceful actions. After marriage, I gave her s*xual pleasure too, then asked to commit suicide together. She rejected. During marriage time, she threatened me to marry saying that she was pregnant. I married her to save child 100% but it was also fake. I know I am not the reason to her pregnancy in case it was true. I told her this thing too clearly to her. My relative got married few months back. I am unable to bear/keep this mental harassment alone. I am 30 years old and she is 27 short n black. She was the only girl child in her home with two brothers. I have two brothers and a sister. All are teachers & married. I left my job but she is doing job happily. They are ready to pay 15 to 18 lacks to me however I am was not a money oriented person. I am a service oriented person. Used to do blood donations & charity activities. I don't have fear to die or life. My self is hardworking & skilled person. Please help by showing a nice direction to rest of my life & ready to provide required information more... ThanQ all for everything happened so far your help... Urs HMT
