In dv cases. on whom does the onus lie to prove

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so do you suggest, i keep my mouth shut, dont reveal the evidence, and let the complainant prove her complaint? would it be a wise thing to keep the evidence of my innocence hidden, instead of revealing it in court. or just let the accuser bark and bark, and prove her points...thanks

Her accusations she has to prove with the evidence that she has against you.

Your accusations you have to prove with the evidences you have against her.

All these to be done when cross examination starts.

What I meant is that there is a right time for showing your proofs to the court. You also need to get your lawyer go through your proofs before the cross examination date and consider his/her approval of if they are valid and when they should be used. Hope your lawyer is upto the mark otherwise you should be.

Proof would be in two categories:

1. Proof of her lying.

2. Proof of you saying truth.

In general, proof of her lying in the DV accusations would be more meatier than proof of you saying the truth (depends on what and how you say it). So going by this, if I were you, I would wait for her to come up with proof of her accusations and then provide my counter proofs either per accusation or at the end of the accusations and her providing the proof.

Go thorugh the process here: https://legalgensis.blogspot.in/2012/01/basic-procedure-process-of-courts.html

You would be providing your proofs at this stage:

-Evidence–evidence of defendant by way of filing affidavit and exhibiting the documents.