I want divorce

Go for MCD if both want to separate...else you need to wait for 1 Yr to see other grounds. Talk to her and then decide.

mutualy she ll nvr give me divorce. i n my family nvr demand anything frm her side. i want to know without any proof can they file a case against me n my family.

In India,

Law is gender biased, means more favourable to women in initial stages.

If she or her relatives bribe the police they can file case 498a without any inquiry and put in Jail. So you must be careful.

Forget about law gender biased-ness and something else.

You donot have any right to spoil someone else's life. Try to settle the differences and live with her.

U need to give the relationship some time ..u can't blame ur jija for for ur decision and spoil a girls life..going legally at this stage won't do any good to u ..if the girl has married u with some malicious intention u will definitely get some evidence ..but right now u should not get frustrated and take any wrong decision ..u be right morally and god will be with u.

as you are major at the time of your marriage, you are fully responsible for all the things done by you, no matter whether it is done by your willingness or by any other way. now, if you want to divorce in that case you must wait for one year and after that you both will file the application under sec. 13 b of hindu marriage act, but as you are says that your wife is not ready that if you want divorce you must have to face case of dowery, maintainance, domestic violance.

One of my freind applied for divorce on the grounds of cruelty & desertion. He is married on 3.1.2011 .After marriage they stayed togethor only 23 days. Since my freind is living in dubai, he is applied for her passport & returned to dubai. But his wife was in relation with other boy before marriage. so she didnt took interest in getting passport. Soon after marraige after 23 days (when husband left to dubai), she ran away from husband house & stayed in her mother house. But my freind tried to bring her back. She didnt came back. 2 times my freind went from dubai to convince her. But she didnt returned. My friend took help from so many mediaters. But no use. Finally he filed divorce case on the grounds of cruely & desrtion.

In this case can you please advise me what proof he can show for cruelty & desertion ground. Since she went from my freind house, 2 years 5 month back , she tried to spoil my freind name. so we chosen this ground.How much time it will take to get divorce.

Please advise.....

Thanks.......

if i convert my religion. then in that condition, can i take divorce.... 

@harshavardhan...you are trapped my friend, unless you have concrete grounds for divorce you cannot escape.

if the girl is good, innocent, and trustworthy, then why are you runnning away, if she has good qualities, then live a peacefull life with her, you dont get good girls there days, alll members out here are unfortunate people who are trapped in false cases, and who, at some point of time, have always wished that they always wanted a good and innocent girl.

so if your girl is good innocent. and trustworthy, not asking for any money and not greedy, then why are you running away

on second thoughts.....do you have an affair outside marriage so now you want to run away??

I'm surprised to see this fellow, with such irresponsible attitude is not in jail yet. Playing with a girl’s life is not that silli issue. If she decides, you will see what all going to happen.  

first of all i want to clear everythng. i tlod her everythng before marriage that i m nt happy n nt ready. i thought she never agree for this marriage but i was surprised frm hr reaction. she replied that nothing can b happened. u will have to sacrifice n aftr sm time u ill changed. 

n second thing i m nt playing with her life n blaw-blaw as some people r saying.. i jst want my n her life bcm batter. 

This is why all Indian laws became lenient to woman and Govt. of India  is still looking to make it more lenient or even gender biased.  Because of like useless guys,  real innocent  men suffer.

How simply everything is justified by this fellow like  “I got married because my family and she forced me” !!!!! ah.................

Somebody force this guy to jump into Yamuna river.  He will do it and problem solved. 

Really man, how can you simply say that you were forced to marry? Today even if the girl says this, it is not considered as valid unless she has strong proof that she was 'forced'.

As Alwin said above, divorce laws are all in favour of women. What is wrong with this hell country these days. If she decides, then she can claim almost 50% of your ancestral property and much more while getting you divorced. Why do you unnecessarily want you and your parents to be poor?

Honestly, after the recent bill passed where women can unquestionably claim the ancestral property, more and more men don't want to marry at all. God save this country.