Today i got a call from a police station and need to attend police by 31 aug 12. Bcoz....
I am XXX, aged 42 years. i got married 16 years back. We blessed with a daughter(5 years). My wife abused me to get out of our house many times. Last year (28/08/11) my wife went to her parent’s home and not returned. Now she is harassing as i expelled her.
When she went home we made a gentleman agreement that, both we can live as independent. If anybody needs others support, they have to come first and say sorry. (I lead this one year very happily)
Now she failed, needs me and my support in all ways. Now she started pelting stones on me, like I molested and physically attacked her etc. etc... She is going to file a case for dowry harassment, domestic violence etc... Now she is asking to come her town and accept her demands, I should promise to all that i won’t harass her(when i don’t harass her, why should i accept). Now bcoz of these false allegations/complaints on me I really vexed with her and don’t like to stay with her. Even now I compromised also, in future she may file any type of case. She wants to take charge of my future.
She used to abuse me a lot and not cooperating in many areas.
Both of we are working; When I was in business(loss), she used to abuse as “jobless”. I tolerated many times. My life was miserable. I became a driver to drop her to office and pickup. Though office transport was there, she dont catch her transport and asking me to drop at door steps. Every time i need to shift my rented house for her, when she change her job location. I only need to look after my kid, at my home or to drop pick to daycare. Now I am working for a good organization and not allowing to abuse. Now I can’t spend much time with her and asking to share duties.
She doesn’t allow my friends and not respecting my friends. she always wants her friends. She is excess weight and obesity. Bcoz of this she suspect me, if i talk to any female, she spread rumors as illicit relation.
She always wear torn/old dresses/nighties at home(many new are available). I feel a shame, looks/behaves like a maid (street sweeper). Many times i requested her to wear new dresses, but she denies.
So how to protect myself ???
Even her parents also believing her words, my parents on my view. We used to live separately, not with parents. But now i am with parents and she is with her parents. they disturbed my daughters mind also, as dad is bad. and allowing to speak(phone) or meet.
Now they influenced police official and asking me to come for counseling. I don’t have support in that town. If I go there, can police arrest me on any case???
how to protect myself ???
If not, Shall I end my life and make her widow???
pls suggest............
regards,
XXX
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