I was forced to marry at the age of 22 and my wife's age was 27 when my father-in-law filed a complaint with the help of local politicians and goons (although we didn't had any s*xual relation). I had to leave my house as my parents were not happy about the marriage because of the age factor. We started living separately at a flat gifted by my father-in-law. Everything was going well. I used to meet my parents and everything was fine. The real problem occurred when my dad expired in January 2011, I came back home with my wife as I am the only son. We started living together, but daily fights started from her side with me and my mom. As I go for work and was unaware of the daily facts happening at home in my absence. She used to hide food stuffs, milk, tea etc etc in her almirah, she stopped cooking for my mom during day time (at my absence). She started making male friends and used to chat late night in phone, although I tried my best to make her understand to leave all such activities but all in vain. After I return home, she starts complaining about my mom including my sisters (who are married happily). My life was becoming hell day by day. It was in the month of April 2011 when she left the house as per her wish that she won't stay with my mom. She asked me to get back to the flat gifted by her father, but I sticked with my mom. I was going through a tough time. We didn't talked after that and suddenly in the month of March she called me and said that she wants to come back, I accepted her and brought her back. But the same problem again continued, she used to meet a guy on a regular basis during my absence (which I came to know from my locality). Things went worst when one fine evening she said that she is going to meet her sister and when while returning home I called her and her number was switched off and then I called her sister and to my surprise she didn't went to visit her. She came back home late and told me that I was in the market and after that I went to my sisters place, I accepted her words and said nothing but started keeping tracks on her cellphone. After 2-3 days I came through one love sms from a guy who she introduced me as her good friend. That day (barely more than a month after she returned again) we had a verbal fight and she left home. Since than we are living separately. I called my wife regularly and asked her what she wants and she always used to reply that she won't come back and will tear the marriage registration papers and asked me to live my life as per my wish and let her live as per her wish. Than in the month of August, I came through a girl and we started seeing each other but it was not love, although she used to take care for me a lot as she was aware of my marital relation. Slowly I also started liking her. She was so kind to me that I really felt that I am in love. It was in the month of February 2013 when I got serious about her and she introduced me to her family (Hiding the fact I am married but living seperately) and we were really a happy couple. I really wanted to spend my entire life with her. During that period I called up my wife asking for divorce and she demamded 1 lakh and I agreed to that. It was 15th march when we did a blunder by getting married in a temple. Her family accepted us but I can't bring her home as my mom became very angry and was fearing about my first marriage. She asked me to divorce my first wife and than she will accept her. In the month of May, her father organised a reception party at their place and all of their local guest were invited. They didn't enquired about me and my present wife also asked me not to tell her parents and to get rid of the issue (divorce) asap. In the month of June my mom had a talk with her sister and than they came to know everything. Her father and sister is a renowned criminal lawyer. Her father asked me to meet him but along with my family. Me and my mom went to visit him and he told us directly that "I don't have any problem with your first marriage but untill and unless you divorce your first wife, this marriage is not valid." He asked me either stay with your first wife or divorce her and take my daughter. Her father gave me 2 years time to settle the issue. And they (alongwith my mom) decided that we can't meet or talk with each other untill I divorce my first wife. Now its been more than a month we haven't seen or talked. Now, I had a talk with my first wife and she is aware about my affair and now she is not willing to give me divorce at any cost, now she is willing to come back again but I can't accept her anymore. I know I did a big mistake and may have cheated my first wife but all happened because I was alone and I was really been loved by my second wife and now I can't leave my second wife. I don't have any feelings for my first wife and is trying my best to convince her for mutual divorce. Me and my first wife is Hindu (Indian) by born and my second wife is Buddhist (ST) (Indian) by born. I visited a lawyer and he said that without mutual divorce it is not possible as I married again. Please help me. Is there any other way where I can stay together legally with my second wife.
