| Originally posted by : Sanjana |
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Thanks for the Response Ramesh Singh. Yes, our marriage is registered. Like stated above i have documentary evidence to prove that he has cheated at the time of maariage.I understand every human makes mistake and i would have forgiven for this mistake.But along with the mistake there should be realisation of spoiling someone's life which he does not have, He has just abandoned this relationship and blocked us.Moreover he is not doing any job to support the family. Suggest what anyone in my place can do? |
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When trust is broken, in your case by having cheated you, there is an extremely low chance of the marriage surviving. Once you have kids, the problems amplify and then you face an expensive divorce suit. You don't need to forgive a cheater and a fraud. You don't deserve to be married to a fraud.
You will need very strong evidence and you should hire a competent lawyer who does not even mention of the S word (settlement). The moment they give hints of that, move to another lawyer instead of wasting your time. File your evidence and move ahead. You will not be able to annul the marriage as its reserved for extremely short marriages and unconsummated ones. You will become a divorcee but being one is a hundred times better than being married to a fraudster who is jobless and has abandoned you. Don't think of claiming expenses, just be happy to get rid of him from your life in the shortest period possible.