BrightConfusion 07 October 2020

Father in law & house, influence my wife & stay their place

Hi,

Father in Law, mother in law and brother in law, influence my wife & stay their home for a long time such as 3 months every year. At the first stage, I am allowing, but now understand it becomes a habit. When I not allowed, my wife forces me otherwise get suicide. Also, a parent in law shouting at me and force me to arrange everything (car, baby necessary).

I have 4 years boy and they starting to influence him by video call, show him toys and different manner.

It is hampered by family life and I am afraid.

I already discuss it with my wife and I am ok to allow stay 1 or 2 days, but not 1 month, 2 months.

How I can take any precautions and prevent this kind of activity. Any legal action to prevent this kind of influence and protect me unwanted circumstances.

Thanks in advance

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This discussion concerns a husband whose in-laws, including his mother-in-law and brother-in-law, stay with his family for extended periods, up to three months annually. This has become a point of contention, with his wife threatening drastic actions if he objects. The in-laws also exert influence over their four-year-old son and demand resources from the husband. He seeks advice on how to limit these visits and protect his family from unwanted influence, including potential legal recourse.