Family issue

Hello Gaurav,

Issue legal notice to your wife asking her to come and join your house leading marital life on par as respecting your's aswell your mother's sentiments and your family customs and as far as complaint is concerned you have taken right step by lodging the same in your jurisdicitonal police station that would proctect you as shield if things won't work out between you and your wife.

Rajesh Kulkarni

Advocate

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sir,

If we go to her home and take her as they are not accepting anything . After she come and call police that they are beating me or any blame then what should we do.

@Gaurav: Start collecting evidence against her ..records all phone calls and save in original media also install CCTV at home

well gaurav, start recording all the calls and be polite always when u talk with them, 

Thanks for the reply. I have 2 more questions :-

1. If women cell give notice and  calls me and my mother , Can I also tell them about police complaint which I have already done or don't tell then as it is evidence.

2. If girl come to my home and start shouting open the door and start quarreling. Can we open the door or can we call the police or we don't open the door.

Thanks for the support in advance.

 

Gaurav ist you have to decide weather u want to live with your wife or not. If Yes then accept her and enjoy your rest of life if you don't want to live with her then i would suggest you start collecting eveidence against her before file divorce also join SIF yahoo group as well as start attending SIF weekly meeting at your place. Don't worry nothing will happen just ignore her and take care of your mother.

Regards,

Lucky

It's your life you should decide whether you want to live with her or not. First try to find out reason of fighting. No one fights without any reason. No one can give any surety of anything. It's your life your decision. Divorce itself a big decision of life. First try to reconcile her. If it fail try MCD. Otherwise you may have to roam many years in court for divorce .

what do you want in writing from your father in law.

You cannot under any law compel your wife to care for sentiments of your mother (what sentiments are hurt you never stated) .

 

Sending notice to her to come back is almost sure and tested tool to comple wife  (leaving her with no option ) to file true /false criminal case for  498a & DV Act.

 

many such cases are floating in this forum.  Better not to be another case.

First, be ready to accept that there is nothing remaining in your marriage and scope is visible to reconcile. Despite this, sending legal notice to reconcile or filing RCR do not make sense. If you are bringing her back to your home then most likely you and your family will be trapped under false cases of DV, 498A and many others.

 

File written complaint in police station for threatening and also write your worry to get trapped in false criminal cases like DV or 498A.

 

Then decide for divorce. As soon as you will file divorce again there is probability of mentioned false cases but these cases can be quashed. You can also file further FIR under IPC 177, 182 to fight against the (probable) false implication.