Her point is that I promised to marry her and she is ready to convert and all and still why I am not marrying her? I am not marrying her because I do not trust her. I have proofs that she lies to me and is still talking to her ex. Since its a long distance relationship, I cannot keep check on her.
What actually happened was I started telling her since 1 year that we cannot get married because of different religions to which she was furious that why dint I thought of this at first but my explanation was that I did not trust her enough to fight for her with my parents. My parents would disown me If I would do such a thing. but I would have done it but I realised she is not worth it. The reason I stopped talking to her was she threatened to create problems to my sister and her kids who does not even know my ex.
This motivated me to leave her.
I believe Call from commissioner was fake as these kinds of lies she has said in the past as well to make me talk to her or meet her like "I am hospitalised, come and meet me" while it all was a lie.
She is upset because she thinks I betrayed her and I believe I cannot marry such a person who has been threatening me for almost a year that if I dont talk to her, she will do this and that. There have been so many breakups between us but I have decided to never talk to her ever now.
I am unemployed for more than 2 years now and on 11-12 April I had my SSC-CGL exam for which I had been studying for 1 year but even after knowing this she tried to mess up with my brains by calling me from commissioners number....I believe it was fake to make me scared of I dont know what...but it worked as I was unable to concentrate in my studies and my exam was ruined.
I never raped her. I was worried if police will come and arrest me and what will happen to my family's image in my city. I knew I have enough proofs to prove I am innocent but still i dint want to defamed like that in society.
She is stubborn and has huge retaliation syndrome.