Extramarital affair repeat offender

Originally posted by : Karankant Tatelu
	Hello, I am seeking advice with regards of my father having an extra martial affair and is a repeated offender. What shud I do? He is 65 yes old.

He needs counselling.  Who better than you can give it to him?  Dont be under false impression of the word Counselling where you go meet a Counsellor, tell him or her the story and seek answers.

 

Every one is at free will to do anything or something but that does not mean that you act liike a monkey at age 65.  For all these kind of activities, there is particular age and time, he ie your father has crossed such time and age and is doinig it shamelessly.

 

If you are only son or daughter, gather elders of your family, if you have some more siblings take them together and do proper pooja to him with broom.  Am sure after broom pooja, the wind that has caught him would leave him and he will become alright.

 

Dont go to police etc, that will worsen matter.  You can arrange a meeting between me and him, I will try to talk sense to him in this regard.  Keep me posted.

If he wont listen and wind wont leave, teen chaar case kardena, khujaane ki fursat nahi rehna budde ko.  Wind apne aap kissi court ke sandas mein nikal jayega 

Let him live in peace, before he is  laid to rest, after all he is 65years Indian.

He has had affairs since he got married to my mother and this is his fourth endeavour. Truth be told I love my father he

He has had affairs since he got married to my mother and this is his fourth endeavour. Truth be told I love my father he is a respectable man but he has been doing such things ever-since I remember. Before he dies in want him to understand that wat he did was wrong. He should have divorced my mom long ago instead of all the hitting all the insults. Still I think a punishment is due.

So the situation got escalated since I last posted. now we have left him alone with all what he has we want nothing frm him if he wants to continue down his path. I need to focus on my own life. It's time for me to get out of all the abuse. Thank u everyone for yur advice. You have helped alot this forum helped me understand that there are many ppl like my father. And there are many children like me who suffer coz of their parents behaviour. It is better to get out then to do anything. Mind your own business.

If you have any other advice please let me know