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Originally posted by : Heart Broken Husband
	Hello Experts...need your comments on below situations... 1. If Wife asking for divorce under pressure from parents without any valid ground for divorce on false allegations what are the chances of her to get divorce as husband dont want to give divorce to her.   2. False dowry case can be made against husband but if husband comes out clean den what can be done to take revenge of it ? 3. Does Email, Online Chats are valid as proof/evidence in court of law ? how to submit the same as evidence and make it proper proof.

1.  Wife asking for divorce, she will get divorce.  Husband ask for divorce, he wont get divorce easily.  Basically its about compatibility, getting along with each other.  Court will see why you both are not willing to stay with each other.  Even if you dont want to give divorce to your wife, no court in India can give orders to her to come and stay with you/cohabit with you.

2.  You can file prejury case and make your lovely wife sit behind bars for 5-7 years.

3.  Yes.  Take printouts.

thank you for quick reply.

wife has no legal ground for asking divorce from husband where husband is willing to take her home. its a love marriage and her parents not willing to sent her to husbands place. brain washing her/emotionaly blackmailing her not to cohabit with husband and under pressure from parents now she refuses to join husband in this case can court grant divorce to her on flase allegations. as husband has not done anything wrong with her till now. she wants to walk out from this relationship without any proper reason. mere on this ground can she get divorce easily ? if not proved den ?

@ Heart Broken Husband

Hi i m not a legal expert. but facing same problem as yours. I just want to tell you one thing that once the matter goes to court, keep your emotions aside instead of  "Heart Broken" you should be "mind sharpened". Generally, before proceeding for case, court usually sends couple for counselling. Ask your wife about exact reason for her filing divorce & try to do some sacrifices at your end also & try to unite amicably. It seems that your in laws are the main cause of all this. If she is doing some unreasonable demands & you really want to cohabit, hire a good lawyer  contest the divorce case strongly. If she is qualified/earning dont pay single penny as maintenance. If there was no serious cause for divorce, there may be two reasons for her filing divorce 1) her parents want to get her remarry 2} Just to harrass you to fullfill their demands. If they want to remarry her & you want cohabitation, definately teach them lesson by contesting the case. Never ever  worry of 498A. But if u r anticipating it . take all precautions with the help of your lawyer.

Originally posted by : Heart Broken Husband
	thank you for quick reply. wife has no legal ground for asking divorce from husband where husband is willing to take her home. As explained above, nobody can force your wife to join you.   its a love marriage What kind of love?  What kind of love marriage I cannot understand.  Sorry if you are feeling bad reading this. Point is, when you fall in love, it should be two sided.  Both of you should stand for each other, without bending down to pressures from parents. Then only can lead successful married life. You willing, She already has succumbed to pressure from her parents. My say, its not worthy. Just let her go. Coz if she is not able to stand by you now, what is the gaurantee that she will stand by you life-long?? Love marriages work only when girl is strong.  You ask any love marriage fellas, girl would be more strong than the boy. Love marriage rests upon girl's shoulders, if she says yes and stands by you, good. If she says no, then nothing can be done. She is not worth it. Its worth calling off the marriage. and her parents not willing to sent her to husbands place. brain washing her/emotionaly blackmailing her not to cohabit with husband and under pressure from parents now she refuses to join husband in this case can court grant divorce to her on flase allegations. All explained above.  Read every sentence very carefully.  It is the question of your future.  Parents will tell `1000 things and brain wash, but where was her brain when she got love marriage with you??  Once you say I love you, next moment you say tata bye bye, then it means only one thing, there was no real love in the first place.   as husband has not done anything wrong with her till now. she wants to walk out from this relationship without any proper reason. mere on this ground can she get divorce easily ? if not proved den ?

If either one is not willing, and is adamant, finally one fine day divorce will be granted.

You may call me if you want if you want any legal advice.

one of my friend having same case its running from past 5 years still divorce not granted each n every fact is as of mine same.

my query is can she get divorce easily if husband is ready contest it agrresively. she has no evidence nothing to prove my fault or anything against me.

husband is truly in love with her still and not willing to break marriage at all.

Originally posted by : Heart Broken Husband
	one of my friend having same case its running from past 5 years still divorce not granted each n every fact is as of mine same. my query is can she get divorce easily if husband is ready contest it agrresively. she has no evidence nothing to prove my fault or anything against me. husband is truly in love with her still and not willing to break marriage at all.

Please do not mistake me. Is your wife Aishwaray Rai kind of beauty or has she got a billion dollars in hard currency in her safe that you do not want to let her go??? Why dont you want to let your wife go?

Sir...i am in relationship with her from past 1 year and i can not live without her i need her badly i am very much emotinaly attached to her. and i can not let her go from my life. for me she is my Aishwarya Rai and she is my everything.

Originally posted by : Heart Broken Husband
	Sir...i am in relationship with her from past 1 year and i can not live without her i need her badly i am very much emotinaly attached to her. and i can not let her go from my life. for me she is my Aishwarya Rai and she is my everything.

She is only not caring.

Why are you caring so much?

Caring, love affection should be reciprocated. 

No doubt you are in love with your wife.

But she does not respect your love.

All these emotions blah blah blah wont stand the test of time.

Today you are singing this song:- I want her means I want her.  I want her only means her only.  She is my AIshwarya Rai, I want means want.  Dont know all  that want her only.

6 years down the line you will be singing a different song.  I should have let her go, this is my karma that I have to roam to court halls.  Why the helll did I marry in the first place.

You got this advice here, first:-  Forget her, give divorce to her, marry someone else.

MCD = 6 months

Contested divorce = 5-6 years

Maintenance/readjudication - 1-2 years

False cases like 498a - 5-6 years + free food inside jail, your parents also sit inside jail with you in different cells.

Falsce cases like PWDVA - 5-6 years

Dont forget money involved, she gets divorce immediately or not, you wil have to keep paying maintenace and also fees to lawyers.

Prepared for all this, then fight it like your friend 5-6 years without any outcome. 

say if you are 30 now, by 42 you wil get some kind of judgment.

Sir i am ready to fight all cases also false cases if done by herside. i am innocent from my side i am very clear on all grounds. i have many proofs to prove her wrong if she falsely alleges me on anything. also i have never demanded any dowry and never hurted her physically. never harressed her or her parents. basically there is nothing againt me if she is asking divorce from me. she just wants to get divorce on urgent basis as her parents are keen on getting her married asap. but i will not let that happen till i am alive. i will fight till my last breath but will never give divorce to her. if she doesnt want to come back let her reside at her parents home i am ready for it someday she will get frustrated and may come back to me when she will realise everything. i am ready to pay maintanance to her as she is my wife. as of now we hv no kids. since last 2 months she is not with me. till now she has not filed for divorce.

Then wait.

Have patience.

Let her make the next move.

Keep calling her.

Talking to her.

Record all calls made to her.

Calls made to her parents.

Good luck.

i am waiting since last 2 months. she never reply me till date. i am calling her everyday but she never answer my calls. sent her many sms, emails but no use. its been 6 months to our marriage now. can u tell me can she file for divorce before 1 year of marriage. and also i am planning to file RCR in smtime if she doent talk to me in somedays now.  infact i received a call from her mother on my residence no. that if i harres her by calling or smsing then she will file police complaint againt me for harresment call recieved by my mom when i was out of home. right now i dont know how she is or what she is doing as i have no contacts with her or her friends as she has no friends. also i can not keep watch on her as she stays like 40 kms away from me and also she has a secured society so can not get inside her compound for keeping an eye on her. i am feeling helpless as i am not able to talk to her.

Before they  file police complaint.

GIve one missing complaint in Police station.  That your wife is missing immediately.  That is how you build a strong case.

sorry but i dont want to do anything wrong. i know where she is as i sent her 2 letters by courier also sent her some articles by parcel. so i knw very well she is at her home with parents but she is not coming out due to parents fear.

You  both staying 40 kms apart.

You telling that you will fight it out till your last breath.

and you getting scared of police complaint threaten by your MIL?

Though it gives me no power to comment on your personality, I'd like to tell one thing.  To love and to fall in love, and then marry, you need lots of guts.  Which you seem to lack.

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Take care good fella.