Hello there, writing on behalf of my sister. She had successful marriage for over 16 years with one child who is now age of 14. Since last two years the family relations has been soured. My sister's mother in law was keep talking rubbish about our family and keep provoking my sister. Even if his grandson make any mistake such as turn off fan while his grandma is there, she said to my sister that is that virtues you offer to your son!! etc. In fact, when my sister got married, we were lower middle class family and now most of our family lives overseas as NRIs. We believe their Ego hurt now as we are in better position now.
There are many small incidents kept happening such as;
-One of my sister's sister in law, used to live in the same house with her husband until they bought own house and some reason she could never make good relation with my sister. Always had jealousy on our family. She is the main person whose interference spoiled the good family of my sister.
-Verbal abuses and torture in small things and all diverted on our family and virtues
- Her Mother in law keep asking her that what your NRI brothers bring for you when they come etc.
- My sister started to complaint to the police but they accept application but did not take any action. Or they may have corrupted to act by the influence of her in laws.
- Few weeks ago, My sister was at home and my sister's in laws suddenly called THEIR daughters and brother in laws. They snatch away my sisters phone. Then they scold her and told not to call police again for the small family issues. This was very serious incident in my opinion as they did not call our parents or us for healthy discussion. Their intentions were not found pure. My sister went to Police Chowky and reported but police didn't take any action.
- Just after couple of weeks of that incident, again their Grandson was playing games on TV, and his grandmom (my sister's mother in law) wanted to watch serial so she slap him and again started to blame on our family virtues. My sister went out and called her husband to sort out. Instead of to sort out the situation, her husband hit her in presensece of the all neighbours. My sister called us and we advised her to go and report to the police chowky again. We went there as well and also called them to respond. We asked them to offer committment so the domestic violence will not happen again and your sisters and brother in law will not interfere in our home then and then only we can send her at home right now. They denied and become very arguementive so we decided to leave police chowky and got our sister at our home. Police had to wait bit long for us as we live far from the area so they throw some anger on us too.
- Yesterday they have sent notice covering everyone's name include our wives through the lawyer that says we are provoking our sister and my brother go to my sister's house and scold and hit my sister in laws. and said if she want to keep the marriage, need to come back in two weeks. In fact, we had hardly couple of hours talk with my sister over the phone in a year as we leaves overseas. My younger brother lives in India so he visit her more often but surely never hit any of them. There are many lies in that application.
-We believe that they think most of our family lives overseas, they belive we will not go to the legal process as they can locked in India in legal matters with false cases.
We are not focusing on revenge but trying to find the way to deal with the situation. However, their intentions are not seems pure as they started lies in the application.
We expect to hear your suggessions to act on the scenario soon.