Hello,
I am residing abroad (KSA) since 3 years, recently i went to India and married as per Islamic law. My parents are absolutely against of Dowry and we didn't take neither a single coin nor any goods.
Before marriage me and my wife was talking over the phone approx. 1 month. But when one week was left for our marriage she told me she has some problem, she said, when she was too young around 6 or 7 years old she had joined any game and during learning she got an injury on her head and after some time she started medical treatment, doctors diagnosed her injury SEIZURE (ATTACK). Now still she is taking medicine at the age of 25 approx. She informed me she will take this medicine during her whole life.
I shocked but I only asked about her medical report and showed to a doctor, in that report doctor's advice was written SEIZURE IS UNDER CONTROL...and the two tablets, which she is taking now.
My family members decided that if I will not marry then the problem will create with my wife's family and it will affect us too. So we decided as my wife's parents are informing us that now she is normal and she doesn't have any problem, we trusted on them and married. After the next day of my marriage I came back to KSA. In fact still my wife is staying at her parents' home, we didn't make our marriage completely, we only did Nikah, not brought to home.
Now approx. 7 to 8 months past, daily I talk with her from Saudi Arabia, I observed that she has not her own topics for talking, until n unless I will not start my own. If I am silent then she is also if I talk then only she replied. This is not that she has very shy nature but you can say that she cannot save so many things in her mind. So many times I told her as I have told you my life's story, as I told you about my schooling, about my friends circle, etc. etc. so you should also tell me something about yourself but always said she had past simple life. Secondly, so many times I observed when I am saying anything to her, suddenly she diverted our topic to any other one and she completely finished the previous one.
Now I have been observed that as a woman plays a very important role in any man's life she cannot do this. Only she can cook and nothing else.
Now I want to take divorce from her. Please advise me how it's possible.
Hope you will be understading the above subject.
Kindly sort out my problem, these days I am very much tense.
Thanks in advance.
Regards.
