If you consumed the marriage, ratified your marriage, and none of herself or her husband objected or sent you to jail, for bigamy, and If you can enjoy Life with her, Why should she we thrown on street?? Only because she rotated 4 times in four minutes around fire??
got married in may 2011. till now wife stayed with me just for 3 months.
You also had good time with her, and then why any other girl should marry you??
3 months = full of quarrels. the suspected the character of 7 ppl from our side. all typical alligations, threats to file complaints. her brother threatned to cut me to pieces. her mother threatened 10 times to file cases. not just a single day of peace.
my parents spent all these days with her under a great burdon - threats of suicide, police ... my parents also say - if she returns, she will destroy everything ... i wont go in petty details.
It is also your fault to get married with already married woman? or even if you are ignorant, It is a mistake not to go through her past record, and marry her.
arranged marriage - she lied - told us that she is legally divorcee. we didnt check papers. i came to know @ LCI for the 1st time that Sub-registrar divorce is not valid. Afraid of her threats, and desertion, I met 12 advocates in my city - all misguiding ...
Probably she is innocent, and married someone under pressure of her parents or guardian ??
no innocence. I assure.
Probably you cannot prove her first marriage, or she can prove her divorce before you married her, and HENCE YOUR MARRIAGE IS LEGAL
I talked to 1st husband. told him my story - asked for guidance - he, after hearing everything, said - just remove your name and put my name - all this has already happened to me. each and every instance.
she has got only sub-registrar divorce deed. no court divorce.
ONLY TALKING ON PHONE WITH HER PREVIOUS HUSBAND IS NOT A SUFFICENT PROOF OF HER MARRIAGE or that your marriage is illegal .
arranged marriage - all our community knows about her first marriage - Divorce deed is the proof that she was married earlier.
Was that First marriage registered??
I understand you cannot digest Whatever I stated here, But will your Opposite Advocate not going to Cross Examine You on these Points??
Yes. I can & will answer him. I dont think that u are suspecting me. U just want to know the truths. So, I do not take it in a wrong way.
If You are so sure she ILLEGALLY WEDDED, and not your wife, why are you filing Petition in Court, and try to prove, you were living together as husband and wife, having committing bigamy?
She left my home - 50 days - i also sent her letter stating the facts - i do not want punishment for her - i just want to get my parents & myself free out of this mess. I have filed annulment petition before 2 days.
Why you want to prove by filing such Petition
She from poor family - using me just as a show piece - also threatened that once she gets pregnant, she will leave me - go to her town - she has small piece of land over there - and she will continue with her govt. service. So, i want to get out of this mess legally .
Any notice anybody served? Any marriage registered? Did you go to her parents home??
I sent her notice - stating the facts.
our marriage is not registered.
they are of abusive nature. they think that this boy has married our daughter. now this family has to behave as their say - weird demands. will be useless to visit them - they do not talk even over phone - my parents, mediators also tried to pursuade them. all in vein - now tired of licking her feet.
You are better than so many harassed husbands.
Yes, I admit. not cases yet filed - only threats after threats - just dry threats.
You have no other complain.
I have so many - but whats the use just complaining - the respondent is ignorant :(
I presume your relations are sweet.
Not at all ! All the time I hear the appraisal of first husband from her mouth.
She is so short minded that - she talks our bedroom things to even the mediator who is 72 years old - and also not very close to her. etc etc. etc.