Good morning all,
In 2013 we immigrated to canada by that time we had a 3 yr old child whom we left at wife's parents. Initially wife got a good job in canada and ar the same time in India my daughter has been diagnized with autism. so my wife went to India and brought her to canada. After coming here I was taking care of her as dropping to school and bringing her during lunch time etc. My daugher was non verbal uses words inapropriately and most of the time she was violent with herself. At that time she said dont worry anything about job as shes earnign more than enough for the family.From 2014 to 2017 I was virtually with out a job as I couldnt get on with interviws and all . other thing is my job timings are not suitable to take car of child. I almost sacrificed my career for my child.
I was too patient with her in dealing with her and the point came whre she listens to what ever i say. but my wife is violent with her as she doenst have any patience. She used to scream and hit her here in canada. Since my child can not talk she didnt complain against her. I didnt complain also because I thought mother is most important for such a girl.I thought she will learn from the way I treat my child almost as a therapist
In 2018 my wife mother came to canada on a visit visa. she dont like the way I treat my child instead she forced my wife nd me to hit her. but i never succumb to her pressures. She pressurized my wife and took my child to India on jan 2019. But by that time my child and both of us became canadian citizens.my wife pressurized me to take her oci and send child to India. I started my job in 2018 which is lot smaller than my wife . because of small job my wife or her family doesnt respect me and think my ways of dealing with child are not correct
Since 2019 jan almost 1 and half year she was not taken to any psychiriatist, no therapist involved and my mother in law tries to avoid showing girl to me she wont answer my calls. they took her to one special school where they dont teach any thing. Ther is no therapist in that school. My wife says dont worry about child.
I hear reports that my mother in law is hitting my child but those are unofficial. I want to bring my child back with out applying divorce. which would be better way. Is there any law which states therapy necessary for a differently able child. I dont know how to convince my wife to bring child back. Shes also here in canada earing more than mine.