I suggest you to talk with the family of your wife along with their well-wishers and your well wishers and get the opinion you have with them and they have about you erazed. The reasons which you attributed are not enough for a divorce. It is not advicable to separate from her for such a trivial reason. Please try to live with your wife. In case you cannot succeed then you think of filing petition for restitution of conjugal rights. Then file a petition for divorce.
please let me know whether a person can seek divorce from his wife(who is ill treating him) after only one month of his marriage as it is impossible for him to stay with her and if yes how long will the procedure take place and how to go about it? please suggest
thanking you
No. One has to wait atleast one year to file divorce petition from the date of marriage.
Even after that, the normal course of time will be taken by the courts to grant divorce, if he/
she succeeds on merits.
Hi Vidyadhar
You and your family's wish (ie not to take her back) has indeed been intentionally forced to be
so by the girl's side by spreading rumours and maligning your image as indicated by what you have
said. In fact they dont want to send her back but instead of filing divorce by themselves and
thus letting you walk away easily, the scenario wherein parallely with their allegations forcing
you to deny, the girl says that she wants to come back, is to give an impression that its on the
contrary you who is responsible for desertion and if you file divorce now, it would prove this
point & that instead you want to leave her against her wishes so that the divorce would be hard
to contest. Then abiding by their hefty monetary demands thereafter (thats the way these things
end mostly) for a mutual consent divorce alternative would be the only respite for you.
So dont say by yourself that she wants to come back when actually she doesnt; refrain from
conversation with her where you have to tell her a no to coming back; start with filing an RCR
instead citing the false allegations they are putting against you (and stating that they are
false); let them revert in the court with a reluctant behaviour in sending her back. But if they
get ready to send her back 'taking back their allegations', bring her back (may be in a seperate
accomodation, thats better for you since in this otherwise remote possibility your wife may be
longing for your company genuinely) Otherwise and in most probability their reiterating those
false allegations over there would form the grounds for divorce on the basis of cruelty thus met
out to you and you wouldnt be wrong in filing a divorce thereafter.
Hi Vidyadhar
You and your family's wish (ie not to take her back) has indeed been intentionally forced to be so by the girl's side by spreading rumours and maligning your image as indicated by what you have said. In fact they dont want to send her back but instead of filing divorce by themselves and thus letting you walk away easily, the scenario wherein parallely with their allegations forcing you to deny, the girl says that she wants to come back, is to give an impression that its on the contrary you who is responsible for desertion and if you file divorce now, it would prove this point & that instead you want to leave her against her wishes so that the divorce would be hard to contest. Then abiding by their hefty monetary demands thereafter (thats the way these things end mostly) for a mutual consent divorce alternative would be the only respite for you.
So dont say by yourself that she wants to come back when actually she doesnt; refrain from conversation with her where you have to tell her a no to coming back; start with filing an RCR instead citing the false allegations they are putting against you (and stating that they are false); let them revert in the court with a reluctant behaviour in sending her back. But if they get ready to send her back 'taking back their allegations', bring her back (may be in a seperate accomodation, thats better for you since in this otherwise remote possibility your wife may be longing for your company genuinely) Otherwise and in most probability their reiterating those false allegations over there would form the grounds for divorce on the basis of cruelty thus met out to you and you wouldnt be wrong in filing a divorce thereafter.
Hello Mr. Vidhyadhar,
I am not a lawyer but a normal lady. I do not know why there was desertion in your married life, didn't both of u liked each other before marriage. If u both liked each other then i think there might be a misunderstanding between u couple solve it, after all she is ur wife, none other than u can understand her and i hope u may have not gone to take her back home, that might be the reason for she did not come back. Pride might have u stopped u from going to her, didn't she was good with u before desertion, hear to her she may be having some problems with ur parents,set it right, u people have promised each other to live together, respect ur promise. would ur ur parents unwillingness bring unwillingness in u also, if so then its ur mistake, she is ur wife u should listen to ur heart and remember ur promise. She may be looking for ur affection which u could not not fullfill, look at this. love really melts a rock, try it she is a woman she will definitely agree if u truly wish. i hope life is not a equation where parents are constant and wife is a variable for u. I have shared my views which are really true if worked out. I wish u both couple be happy together always.
Dear Friend, We can understood that, she is not ready to give divorce, If u file a divorce under disertion, you are invaiting the problems. It is not a solutions, please meet their parents, relatives and well wishers,friends, you also give up someting to gain her love and affection. It is life not a shirt to change whenever we wish. If she has any outside affair & issues pertining to health, your thinking may be right, but the issue is different, please sit and discuss, find solutions. Do you think, you will get best in second chance, take some good decision, It is just a matrimonial day to day issue, it is their in every family, she may be arrogent and may b some attitude issue. Dont go for Divorce, speak to her
Firstly...just because she refuses to stay with you and especially with your parents does not mean she deserted you. Secondly, living with in-laws creates too many divorces. Parents need to stay out and away from a marriage. When couples flight both familes accuse each other. That does not mean only she is spreading rumours about you. Sort things out with her. Thats my only advice. Your parents will grow old and die. She will be with you till the end. Parents will act smart now, but in a few years will rest comfortably in their graves. Dont break a marriage up. Forget ego and go talk to her. Find solutions. Be a man. I have seen too many re-marriages. So I am talking from experiences. Second marriages are not heaven. But couples adjust a lot because it that fails, it will be huge shame. So adjust now. Most second marriages are unhappy udjustments to show the world. Please remember that.
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