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Barkha (None)     10 October 2012

Desereted

I am married for three years now and have a girl child. She is one and a half year old.My huband from yhe very begining was rude to me. He often hit me on insttigation from his family. But, I continued with a hope that someday things would be fine.He also suffered from erectile dysfunction.But,he only found faults with me rather than treating hisproblem.He suffered loses prior to our marriage in his business but, strangely he blames me for it. He thinks that it was shut down after nmy arrival.He started another business and is doing very well now.

His family membersdidnot like me from the very begining. They felt they could get a more beutiful girl for him and I was not a good match for him.They often caused misunderstandings between us. But, it's my sad fate that he has no faith in me and cannot see their intensions.My in-laws often say things on my bearing a girl child, as she is  the only girl in our family.I didnot pay much impotrance to all this as i love her a lot.

on the 15 th of august2012 my in laws caused misunderstanding between us following which my husband left house.Now, we are in no touch. My In laws want me to leave the house with my daughter but, don't want a divorce.they don't want to return my jewellery or give me anything..I lost my father five years back. There is no one to support me. What shold i do?My in lawws have alsofled leaving me all alone and with no money. they refuse to inform me about his whereabouts.please help me. what should I do.

Barkha.



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Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     10 October 2012

1. At a self find “contact” of in-laws and your husband send a Letter saying you are ready to leave it all and move on in life. Or if you know his business address this letter can be sent there to.

2. They or he will come back to the house where you are living as you say alone for the farewell!

3. Before para 1 and 2 act hire an advocate from reference. If you cannot afford Chamber Advocate fees then approach local District Courts Legal Aid Center and they provide at bar eminimum cost legal aid to needy female litigants such as you on tax payers money.

4. Via the advocate file an Divorce case under “mental cruelties” ground + Child Maintenance case / your maintenance case if not working + an separate civil injunction application not to evict you form matrimonial home till clarity in instituted Divorce case cometh.

The moment either in-laws or husband comes serve upon “dasti notice” of above. Let the case go on and your residence is taken care of and it is only matter of months when maintenance starts rolling by and with passage of time your divorce from marital issues which you say from day one will be thru and then you can re-start your life.

The purpose of keeping marital issues in “civil domain” as in above suggested civil cases is that if all parties want to compromise and start fresh the possibilities with civil cases are there.

Rest you are educated and sensible you may understand what may be good for 1-1/2 persons now.  

 

Guest (Guest)     10 October 2012

The first and foremost thing you should decide is if you want to save your marriage?

If the answer to the above question is yes then law has no role to play in your marital life. However, if you want to get out of your marriage then you may file a peitition for divorce on the ground of mental cruelty, apart from seeking maintenance, residence and child custody. The decision has to be taken by you.

Good luck!

 

Ashish Davessar

Advocate

Supreme Court of India

Punjab and Haryana High Court

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