Can a pvt 498a case be withdrawn back ? ?

I meant can the 498a case be withdrawn without me comming to india ?

Yes.You can withdraw 

is the memo filed at the lower courts or only at high court , me and family have a false 498a pvt complaint case on us.

now if the girl wants to withdraw the case , does she have to go to high court or the lower court is enough ?

uptill now the case has not started and there is no fir as far i as  i know.

Do i or any one from my side has to come to india ? or itcan  be withdrawn by the girl alone ?

Are there any conditions to be mentioned in the withdrawal application /memo ?

if it is filed in lower court as a Pvt. complaint, and if the lower court have not yet taken cognizance of the offence, it means that  no process u/s 204 of Cr.p.c. is issued, than it can be withdrawn, by the complainant herself, for want of prosecution.

Yes it can be withdrawn by her, but take divorce from her if you are paying her to withdraw.

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Who filed said complaint in court , he/she can withdraw complaint.

such withdrawl may be possible only if there is reconciliation.  The reconciliation may be eithe rto stay with  each other or for MCD.