Originally posted by : Prashant Upadhyay
My name is prashant upadhyay, resident of aligarh, I am a teacher by profession and employee in a private institution. I Married to Anshu mathur who also a co-worker of mine. our marriage is agianst both of us family. after marriage her brother and mother take her home back regarding completing all rituals. but now she is not coming back, she refusing to came back home, even her brother and mother provoking her against me. her brother came to me and my father office and insulting us. what should i do now, i am totally depressed because she is the only one for whom I go against my whole family and now she also betraying me. I want justice and I am totally helpless. Last option of mine is just suicide because I want my family and my wife back. please help me what should i have to do
Police department are not ready to even lodge my complaint against her family.
I am totally help less.
I feel sorry for you. No woman in this world other than mother is worth committing suicide.
If she has gone to her mother's place, with her mom or alone, she only should return herself, or she should agree to come with you when you call her. In no way you can force her to come back to you.
Above many people have suggested that file RCR, but that is of no use, inspite of filing RCR your wife is not compelled to return back to you and no court can force her to join you.
Your wife joining you back is totally dependent of both of your understanding each other. Eventually, if she does not return at all, the RCR will help you get divorce, but then according to current trend, once you fileRCR, the wife may file false cases under 498a or DV and also ask maintenance and can get you and your parentage arrested and sent behind bars [498a i.e. dowry case].
So it is better for both of the parentage yours as well as hers to sit and talk in your and her presence about what you want to do about future. If your wife do not want to join you back together, applying for mutual consent divorce is the best way forward.
If she comes back, then all is fine.
Whatever it is, first talk to your wife, then approach her parents along with your parents and talk it out. Leave the ego, as ego will create many problems. Good luck.