I think u took my sentence in wrong way. It is not about Rich & poor. It is about to force a person to do a work behind his capecity.
For example. A man is not used to do house hold work daily. But suddenly he has to do jadu-pochha & cleaning in & rooms,Washing cloths including bedsheets of 6 room every day, washing bartans ,cook food. constently for only 1 month . it is imposible for him.
In todays era parents focus on girls studies so they dont force her daughter to do house hold work .they just taught therir daughter to do this work only in imergency like in absence of "BAI".& only teaches to cook a food & Manage the home.& also searches the Husband from the same type of culture not in the village.
So doing these much of works are imposible for that girl. She can get responsibilities of cooking & managing her home.But forcing her to do these much of works even though they are capable to give a 1000 rupis to "Maid " is a physically haresment to "bahu".Kamvali bai also refuse to do these much works even though she'll get paid for it by saying" itna sara kam mujse nahi hoga dusri bai bhi rakh lo"
I heard in DV matter can solved only by counseling between 2 parties? Is it true?