Generate irrefutable evidences.
These can be useful.
If you wish you may post what exactly is the reason for such corrosive conduct?
Is only one spouse responsible?
If possible crease all differences and let one and avoid display of a large ego and enjoy blissful married life.
Approach in person alongwith elders of your family, competent and experienced well wishers, seasoned PIP, a very able senior LOCAL counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in Family/Guardianship/Civil matters and well versed with latest citations, LOCAL applicable rules/laws/ … and having successful track record…. and worth his/her salt…..and share inputs /show the documents/evidence for a considered opinion..
At each location three are some counsels that specialize in such matters and they are well known.
Check for such counsels at LOCAL Family/civil courts, HC, SC……