Regarding divorce and child

Where is the kid now. If he is staying with you and you have no problems with the ways of your wife, who is asking you anything?

Else you can seek divorce and child custody if you can prove her behavior which is promiscuous.

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

Right now we live together with my son.  She deals her activities very smartly nobody suspects her relationship she deals in the name of friendship even that guys wife also never suspects.  I know they have gone outtings sometime with one more friend accompanying for safety purpose. 

But there is only one proof we can get from BSNL telephones through itemised bills and call/sms details about their interactions, will that help otherwise mail chains and other things i am not sure how to get it...by this time she must have deleted or safe guarded all the relationship matter. 

 She and her parents influencing my son too much that he never bothers about me also...

decide dear freind what you want.

Dear sir,

I am looking for a divorce and i want my son to live with me...this is my wish...

@ Danesh

I had a similar situation. I obtained evidence of the affair and visited his home and spoke to his wife. Following which his wife deserted him with two of his children and left for China and I tried to seek family and marriage therapy to save my mariage. I tried very hard to make things work with my wife, involving parents, relatives etc. She could not make up her mind to come back and start new life.

Ultimately, several lakhs spent on lawyers , lost wages and finally, the two minor kids are without father. 

My suggestion is to attempt marriage counselling first. Some of the mariage counselling experts can help the offending party realize the damage they may do to the children, their own health. If that doesnt work, then collect the evidence neccesary for divorce on the grounds of infidelity. 

Who is the other man ? Where does he work ? What does his wife do for a living ?  Does the other man have kids ?  If you want to know what she does over email, send me a pm and I can provide technical solutions.

Let her make mistakes - dont confront her - like a fly that gets attracted to a pile of feaces and perishes in it, this one will find its own fate. 

There is another side to the story - are you doing your duties of a husband and mate. Are you making time for her ? When did you last go for a vacation ? Before you try spying on her , take a vacation and get away from inlaws and everyone and see how she responds. If she is already entrenced in feaces, you will know. 

You need a detective, lawyer and a counsellor.