Sir, thank you very much for your kind reply for my topic, i have to share some more details on this topic, Sir actually im a Christian guy, and she was a Hindu Girl belongs to Kappu Caste (Andhra Pradesh) actually we both of them said our matter to our parents For their permission to marry each other, Our parents are accept for our marriage without any objection but the girl parents are not accepting our marriage because of caste and religion problem, That girl parents are trying to marry the girl with another person but she was unlike to marry another person but they are harassing the girl to marry that another person So kindly please help Us in this topic for our marriage...
Love has no boundries,but marriage has.Though I am not supporting the religious differences,can you sustain all the hurdles you encounter in future.Not only you but the girl too withstand.If both of you are very stubborn,take the help of NGO's,go to a police station,inform them of your intentions and also the retaliation in the girl's household and get married.I have seen many youngsters like you,getting married and later succumbing to the pressures and getting separated,due to communal differrences.But that should not be repeated by both of you.Anyway my heartfelt and sincere wishes for a best of married life.
What help do you wanr from us? It is you two who shall have to help yourselves. If both of you are adult and have decided to marry each other, then contact a marriage registrar, give one months notice and get married under special marriage act. Once she is married to you, her parents can not get her married off to any body. You both shall have to face the intial post marriage chaos/noise which will settle down with the passage of time.
Special marriage act is not the act to be done by you but the name of the legislation which covers inter-caste or inter-communal marriages. The way marriage is performed is more or less same in registrar's office whether it is marriage under Special marriage Act or under Hindu marriage act. Just go to Registrar of marriages and take assistance from the people (outside every govt. office some brokers would be there assisting people to get things done in office by accepting some money) there they will tell you what are the requirements for getting married. The minimum requirement that I can tell as of now is a girl (who wilfully marries you) and two witnesses.
If you are financially independent then my suggestion is you both never show up your face to your parents or at least for 3-4 years after marriage. If both of you are not financially independent then don't marry at all.