Thanks Manoj Sir, Mr. Ramachandran, Kiranji and Daksh for your valuable advice. I don’t have words to express my gratitude.
I too agree with whatever you all have told me.
So describing more to my situation, I came back to my husband’s home about one month back after staying apart for about 1 month. The reasons for leaving his home were the mental and physical torture he and his family gave me. However, me and my family were in a impression that by staying apart , if not his family than at least my husband will think of what bad he has done to me, will recognize my importance in his life and will regret and will come to me apologizing and everything will be smoothen again. However, I waited for good 1 month but nor my husband and neither his parents tried contacting me, my husband never made a single call to me to know about my whereabouts. However after waiting for 1 month, I thought if he is still not ready to take initiative, let me take the same at my end and go back home and talk to my husband so that we can save this relationship. I did the same and came back home about 25 days back. However, to my surprise, my husband was not ready to take me in but when I requested he opened the door but told me that we can not stay together as he has already filed case in court and until the decree is passed I can not come back to his home. I denied it saying that I m not going anywhere and since this is my home too, I will stay here only and I have come back to give this relationship another chance. He called his father (his parents stay in other city) and I don’t know what did he told my husband, he got ready for office and left. I work in night shifts and in evening I too left home for my office. The next day when I came back in morning around 6am, to my surprise , my husband was not there, he left home taking all his clothes, documents, shoes, his bike and my car too (which my mother gave me in my marriage and car is in my name). I tried calling my husband there and then but he didn’t pickup my phone nor my relative’s call. The second day when my uncle called him from an unknown #, he picked the call, my uncle asked him why has he left home taking all the stuff with him and that too without letting his wife know. To this he replied that he has filed case in court about 20 days back (when I was not at home) to get his wife back. He made my uncle understand that it’s just a legal formality to make sure our relationship will go smooth in future. My uncle who doesn’t have much knowledge about legal issues, trusted him and asked him to send a copy to us of the legal notice so that we could also see what all my husband has filed in court. He within an hour mailed the RCR copy at my ID and we all read it and me and my relatives were surprised and upset over the allegations he had made in the RCR notice. He stated that my mother has not given anything in my marriage , nor his family has demanded anything, marriage was a very simple function (although my mother who is a widow has spent around 19 lakhs on my marriage and we have all valid proofs for it including snaps and bills). Also he mentioned on his petition that his parents have gifted me jewelry and clothes worth Rs. 4 lakh (which is gain totally untrue) and I have left home taking all these items with me w/o informing my husband and his parents. However the truth is all my jewellery which my mother gave me and also which my in-laws gave me in marriage are at my in-laws custody since day one of my marriage. Also, he mentioned that he and his family tried contacting me many times to make me come back home but I refused to come back home (this is again not a truth).But to paint his good picture, at the end he has requested in his petition that he wants his wife to come back.
He informed about filing RCR just about 1 week prior we had hearing in cort. Me and my family members were surprised about this thing as well. However, we hired an advocate so that we can reply back on his RCR notice but since we still wanted to save this marriage and me and my mother still believe that whatever my husband has done and is doing is all because of his parents and they are the main culprits behind my sufferings and spoiling my marriage.
Our advocate made a very good reply to his notice denying all the allegations on my behalf but also mentioning that irrespective of all this happened to me, I still want to give this marriage and my husband another chance and want to live with him.
Now after one week when the day of hearing arrived, me, my mother and my uncles were present at the court but from my husbands side, it was only his advocate and his father, my husband didn’t come that day. The judge asked the first question to his advocate if they want to save this marriage to which his father replied yes but his advocate pinpointed that his client wants to save the marriage but not the girl to which my advocate replied there and then that girl is already at her husband’s home but husband himself has left the home and also has filed RCR against his wife. To which the judge was obviously surprised and told both the parties that he wants to meet me and my husband in the next hearing which is after 10 days and he thinks there is nothing much in this case as both the parties want to live together. Also he asked my lawyer that he need not to give the reply on the RCR petition as this case seems to be solved already. So my lawyer on Judge’s instruction didn’t file our reply to my husband’s petition.
Now my concern is what will happen after 10 days when we will have the hearing in court? How can judge that my husband’s intentions are really good and he also wants to keep this relationship?