Respected Sir/Madam,
I have been married for 1 year 4 months. Before marriage, my wife said that since it is an arranged marriage, she needs one year to be intimate in bed and because of her family's conservative nature, I agreed to her childish proposal. But after few months of marriage things changed as I found that she is very adament in her words and not at all willing to go for an intercourse. We had foreplay but that didn't lead to the next steps as she was extremely unwilling. After 6 months, I presurrised her to visit a Gyno/psychiatrist but she resisted as she is in medical field and did not want her problems to be revealed. My family slowly came to know our problem and there was a lot of commotion between the two families, following which my wife started to stay separately in her home. I presurrised her to visit a Gyno if she wanted to come back home and lead a healthy life with me. Later, she visited a Gyno with her sister but did not allow the doc to investigate her internal organs, as mentioned clearly in the prescripttion. My curiosity further multiplied and I tried my best to investigate myself with help from google that my wife is suffering from a rare hymenal disfunction, called microperforate hymen, where the hymen is formed outside with a pin like opening, making intercourse impossible. She later went to a doc, who clarified the same as her congenital disorder. Now, my wife and her family members are denying their knowledge about her disease and they want her to do a hymenectomy operation. But as per my understanding, apart from physiological, she has some psychological or hormonal disorders as well. She is suffering from very less to no libido, otherwise she should'nt have resisted so much to go to a doc and lead a normal life beforehand. Hence, I am not confident about this operation and I might fall in a disaster later as it will be difficult to prove nullity after she operates. On the otherhand, I do not have any documents of doc visits as she used to visit all docs with her sister. She is threatening me to go to a contest if I suit a case of nullity on our marriage. Please help.
You don't have a case for nullity of marriage on the ground of non-consumation of marriage due to the impotancy of the respondent wife. The disorder in her can be ractified through operation as has been medically advised and her leading normal s*xual life after that can not be ruled out.
Better workout the marriage in an amicable manner.
