My husband says no physical relationship in Marriage

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Respected sir/madam,

                                                 8 months back I got married. My husband hided his real details about his ISCON life style(vaisnavas-IIT-DELHI).He physically& mentally harassed me,asking cash instead of property which is in my name.Perverted life style.He is doing Ph.D in IIT-Chennai.He is abig lier &cheater.None of his relatives nor his parents told us about his real life. He told indirectly.Infact confused &mislead us.Now he abondoned me& asking to settle matter privately.My life is ruined.My family members &my health is spoiling.Now my brother also has to get married. He harasses not only my parents but also my brother who is working hard for our livehood .My brother also has to pay back debts& should go for further studies..He used to send some mails &also chat with my brother constantly disturbing him.He says I did not take any dowry & you people spent lavishly on marriage.Before he told only to giveup non-veg,no onion&garlic.He &his relatives made a secret plot &trapped us seeing our innocence.We happen to meet each other on Jeevan saathi.com.He convinced us acting smartly.This is a cold murder.Now he blames me for every thing.He is forcing to settle matter secretly without giving even a penny.He actually got property from his paternal grand father only after marriage.Cleverly he married me &left me after taking property from his grand pa.Hardly I was with him only for 54 days.Actually such kind of people should get married  only in their community.But he has a bad name there.His main activity is to convert people into ISCON.He forcefully use to convert people&students in MVZR college when he was working there in Vizianagaram.He also trained his niece with his network & left her as she is poor.His main motto is to convert people especially girls into Krsna consciousness.He is angry &foolish.I & my family would have committed suicide because he defamed us.He was brain washed 10 yrs ago when he was doing M.tech in IIT DELHI.He got addicted to listening to his sir's devotional lectures.He says one has to give up eating, mating,sleeping ,defending...He is irrational.He leads a peculiar lifestyle trained by his guru  who in now in Udipi.These people are irrational & perverted.Please help.He says he is not ready to giveup his guru's network.Guru provocates saying that one has to give up parents,wife ,children etc if they are not Krsna conscious.He says you take me to Psychiatrist even then i won't change....Fickelminded...endless are his peculiar deeds..

 
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If you want you can file divorce petition under Section 13 (1)(ia) means "cruelty" and also under Section 13 (1)((vi) means "he has renounced the world by entering any religiious order" and also domestic violence case for demanding money from your brother and also seeking maintenance in divorce case or in domestic violence case (I suggest domestic violence case because it gives quicker relief).  If you are not interested to file divorce case, then also you can file case under domestic violence Act for maintenance, protection and shared household.


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Lawyer

Poor girl.

 
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Advocate

yes i agree with Mr. Prabhakar and you can file a divorce petition on the above said grounds since you shall not be able to move a petition for annulment of marriage under section 12 as per the facts and circumstances of your matter.


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Advocate

You can file a divorce petition on the ground of cruelty as suggested by Mr. Prabhakar and Mr. Manish. This guy is sick because the guru who taught him is also sick. If he belives in celibacy, then  he should not have married you at the first place. If everyone go on to believe the misinterpreted version of celibacy the guy is professing and propogating than the world will come to an end.


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Advocate FAMILY LAWYERS Kottayam Kerala www.familylawyers.in

You can file a petition for divorce after expiry of one year from the date of marriage.  Before one year you should obtain permission of the court.  But you can file a case before the Family Court for recovery of  money and Ornaments, now itself.  first attach the property and then proceed.

Adv. Biju Gopal

www.familylawyers.in


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Consultant

You go for divorce by mutual consent and let him go from your life.

Let you do whatever you want and let him do whatever he want,  Do not think that yourlife is ruined, this is called badluck by chance and most of the peoples got into this kind of situations.

He can not take anything from you, it is just 8 month of marriage, you have lot of grounds to seperate from her. Get dovorce and I suggesting not to file unnecessary cases like Domestic Violence, these will waste your precious time also. Go for the thing you want, tell him to come for mutual consent divorce, he has to give divorce to you. there is no need to time waste to stuck with this relatioinship.

Best of Luck!!!!


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surprising!

then why he marry?

Please ask him who is Radha? who is Sita?


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please do not agitated him.  avoid unnecessary arguement. i shall give you a detailed answer latter on.


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ADVOCACY

CONSULT A LAWYER YOUR PROPLEM IS NOT CRITICAL BOOK HIM UNDER 498,406 CRIMINAL SECTION AND HE WILL THEN BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES .AFTER THAT U WILL BE THE CHOOSER NOT THE BEGGER OF YOUR LIFE

 
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