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Rakesh (Executive)     09 September 2025

Mutual divorce and alimony payment

Dear All,

My wife and I are separated for 5 years. A 498A and divorce case are ongoing. Now, we’ve agreed to file for Mutual Divorce. However, she is demanding full alimony at the First Motion stage, in exchange for withdrawing the pending cases and signing the mutual divorce petition.

I’m concerned she may not appear for the Second Motion or may change her mind, and I won’t be able to recover the alimony if that happens.

  • What safeguards can be put in place to protect my interests in such a situation?

  • Is it advisable to pay the full alimony at the First Motion stage?

  • Are there any legal mechanisms to ensure her appearance and consent at the Second Motion?

if she disagree , i am sure she will not refund alimony money.

Please help me in this regrd

 



 5 Replies

Manohar Muthusamy   09 September 2025

Refuse  her  demand. It's  a  trap. She  may contest  after  full settlement  in first  motion. Drag Time  and  wait  like  a stork.

If any  lok adalat scheduled in  the  court  ask her  to get  settlement  through  that channel. Draft  full and  final  settlement  deed   in  discussion with  prudent  advocates.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     10 September 2025

There is no necessity for you to pay her the entire amount in the first motion itself.

You be aware that that she cannot withdraw the 498a case because it is non compoundable offence, hence you may ask her to file an affidavit expressing no objection to quash the same before the high court where you may have to file a quash petition to quash the criminal case on the basis of the mutul consent divorce.

 

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Dr. J C Vashista (Advocate )     10 September 2025

Very well analysed, opined and advised by experts, I concur.

Answer to your queries are:

Q. What safeguards can be put in place to protect my interests in such a situation?

A. Do not agree to pay in first motion, it must be paid in 3 equal / agreed amount instalment as per motion / other proceeding.

Q. Is it advisable to pay the full alimony at the First Motion stage?

A. Not at all.

Q. Are there any legal mechanisms to ensure her appearance and consent at the Second Motion?
A. Make installments payments in such a manner that she withdraws all case(s) after first motion, part payment of balance at second motion and balance at the time of quashing of FIR / any other proceeding left out.

Consult your lawyer who is well aware about facts of the case, our opinion / advise / obligation is based on facts posted by you.

Best wishes for peaceful life.

 

Himanshi Gupta   10 September 2025

Mutual consent divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, is a subject of Section 13B and requires the performance of two motions.

The wife’s request for the entire amount of maintenance to be paid at the first motion in the current scenario, implies that the husband is exposed to considerable danger. This is due to the fact that in accordance with the decision of Sureshta Devi v. Om Prakash, (1991) 2 SCC 25, consent should be there till the second motion and any one of the parties may revoke it before the decree is passed. Hence, should the wife get the full amount initially and later go back on her word, it will turn almost impossible to get the money back from her.

Courts usually suggest the alimony be divided into parts to avoid such situations. At the first motion, a small sum can be paid as a token, and the rest can be made conditional on the wife's presence and agreement at the second motion. Besides that, a written settlement agreement or a memorandum of understanding should be executed indicating the payment schedule, the withdrawal of cases in which parties are involved (under Section 498A IPC), and the consequences of default. Such a pact, being recorded by the court, offers a certain degree of enforceability.

Payment should always be made through bank instruments with a clear recital that they are subject to the successful grant of divorce. Furthermore, the request for the resolution of the criminal case after the settlement may be made under Section 482 of the CrPC (K. Srinivas Rao v. D.A. Deepa, (2013) 5 SCC 226).

In conclusion, the husband should not pay the full alimony at the first motion stage, in order to protect and safeguard the husband's interest ,the most effective legal safeguard is a well-balanced court recorded statement which is backed by payments in installments and to ensure the wife's appearance and consent at the second motion ,the court can be requested to record statements of both parties at the first motion and direct them to comply with the settlement terms.

P. Venu (Advocate)     11 September 2025

Having waited for long, you should not and need not rush. 

It is important that she moves the High Court in order to get the 498A matter settled. And also, ensure that the settlement award is drawn up through mediation.


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